Can a wise man survive, surrounded by unwised!?! Can his believes help him to overpower his human needs and to control his feelings? I don't think he can! Cause he certainly understands the nature of creating feelings to someone and he knows how hard is to extinguish them, almost impossible if they're real! If you asking me, you must be a fool if you reject a real thing, and a wretch if you can't recognize it. First, if you reject it, you've got to know how much unnecessary pain you've gonna cause to the person that actually loves you, believe me, it hurts badly for a long time and it leaves permanent consequences on that persons spirit! Second, if you don't understand, try to and try not to judge! It's impossible for you to recognize it, well maybe you just don't want to see it! Open your eyes widely. Be careful with feelings you caused to anybody, it can't be redrawn! Once they are given, they stays for good! When they're created, it's your choice how would that person feel, happy or unhappy about you! It's very important to break up the relationship at first you realize that that person doesn't suits you, otherwise, you will hurt badly that person when it comes to a pending end and you will carry the guilt cause you were probably using that person for some sort of your own satisfaction and when you didn't need him or her anymore, you just get rid of her/him. I dare to call you a „pathetic asshole“, cause that's what you really are!