Zahvalnost
četvrtak , 16.10.2025.Preduvjet ljubavi je zahvalnost. Bez nje brzo zaboravimo ono dobro, a skupimo ono loše u sebi. Bez nje nam se pomuti vid i mi više ne vidimo ispravnim očima. Zatim slijede zamjerke... i gle čuda, pukne ljubav. Zahvalnost je vrlina i da se naučiti i trenirati tko želi na sebi raditi. Koliko puta sam čula, kad veza pukne, koliko sam joj/mu dao/la da bi me na kraju ostavio/la. Sve se svodi na to da jedan od partnera ne zna cijeniti male ili velike žrtve i ustupke koje druga strana čini. Kad ste u vezi, vježbajte zahvalnost. Ako treba, pišite svaki puta kad netko nešto dobro učini za vas. Na kraju ćete imati dobru listu kad naiđe neki problem da se prisjetite zašto ste u toj vezi i tko je zapravo osoba koja stoji ispred vas. Ta metoda pomoći će vam da partnera/ricu vidite pravim očima i manje ćete se zamutiti kad naiđu nesuglasice i prolazni problemi.
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Što ljubav nije
petak , 03.10.2025.Ako trebaš moliti za nju
To ljubav nije
Ako se trebaš boriti za nju
To ljubav nije
Ako ju moraš preispitivati
To ljubav nije
Ako nisi siguran/na i previše brineš
To ljubav nije
Ako si ljubomoran/na
To ljubav nije
Što je onda ljubav?
Ljubav je kad ju svjesno odabireš
Ljubav je kad si siguran/na i ne brineš
Ljubav je kad sebe daješ i ne tražiš ništa zauzvrat,
a zahvalan/na si kad ju dobiješ nazad
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Love is not to be begged
četvrtak , 02.10.2025.That day when you decided to leave
You said that you need to choose yourself
You packed your bag and stood in front of me
Waiting for me to stop you
Well sorry darling but
Love is not to be begged
I didn't want to fight for it,
I'm not the one who wanted to be in that battlefield
I've put all your choices back into your hands
And all you could think of was that I was weak
I cried and I said to you I can not stop you
If you want to leave, leave
My heart was ripping off into pieces
You just turned away and left me there
Thinking you made the right choice
Let me tell you why I didn't stop you...
I can not love myself instead of you
You already had my love
You were the one questioning it
It's about making choice to love someone
It's about willing to care enough to make it work
I can not make that choices instead of you
I can only make that choices for myself
And hope the other side will make them too
When you think a bit about what we had
It's such a waste that you gave up on that
But I too deserve to be loved
Loved the way that I do
Without questioning it
With energy aimed to making it work
Instead of wasting it on an empty straw
I remember your words while hugging me goodbye
We will be together again you said
But not if you're waiting for me to call
I tried to reach out to you
I tried to make you remember
You blocked me
I never made that choice
You're the one who decided to leave
You already had my love
But you don't know that you still have
But you won't call cause you're too proud
Or maybe you're just lost
I can not love myself instead of you
I can not decide that for you
I'm sorry, but you need to find yourself again
That road is up on you
If you ever find yourself and you realize what you did
Let's hope your gonna find me
Let's hope I still be here
Just so you know
I had choices too
But I always chose you
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