Peaceful mind = Peaceful life

06.08.2021., petak

LEARN TO LET IT GO

Let go of people who are not ready to love you. This is the hardest thing you will have to do in life, but also the most important.
Stop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change.
Stop hanging out with people who are not interested in your presence.
I know you long to gain recognition from everyone around you, but it is a longing that steals your time, strength, mental and physical health ...
When you begin to fight for life with joy, interest, and dedication, not everyone will be willing to follow you toward that goal. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be what you are because of it and that you have to change it means you have to let go of those who aren’t willing to follow you.
If you are rejected, offended, forgotten, or ignored by the people to whom you dedicate your time, do yourself a favor by offering them your time, strength, and life. The truth is that you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you.
This is what makes it feel so special when you find people with whom you are bound by friendship or mutual love. You know how valuable it is because you have experienced what it is not before.
The more time you spend trying to make yourself love someone who isn’t capable of it, the more time you spend denying yourself the opportunity to connect with someone else.
There are billions of people on this planet and many of them will get to know you at your level of interest and commitment.
The more connected you are to people who use you as a pillow, a second-plan option, or a therapist for their emotional healing, the longer you deprive yourself of the environment you long for.
They may not look for you if you stop showing up. Maybe the connection will, if you stop trying to stop. Maybe if you stop typing messages, your phone will be silent for weeks.
That doesn’t mean you ruined the relationship, it means that the only thing that kept it was the energy that only you were giving. It’s not love, it’s attachment. It’s giving a chance to those who don’t deserve it! You deserve a lot, and there are people who shouldn’t be in your life.
When you realize this, you begin to understand why you are so anxious when you spend time with people, in activities, places, or situations that don’t suit you and shouldn’t be close to you and steal your time and energy.
You will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and for everyone around you is to protect yourself from such people.
I know you understand, don't waste any more time and energy, but go ...
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