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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mTn_v08ZJEM


"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering,
known strle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.”

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

“Being with him when he died was something I will never forget. His bravery. His happiness. His acceptance. It was a colossal experience for me. Changed my life completely in a way that I had not expected. I expected to feel sad and lost. But I felt the opposite. Just, like, ‘Boy, this is it. This is all we have. Right here. So you’d better pay attention.’”

Laurie Anderson and Lou Reed


“To love. To be loved. To never forget your own insignificance. To never get used to the unspeakable violence and the vulgar disparity of life around you. To seek joy in the saddest places. To pursue beauty to its lair. To never simplify what is complicated or complicate what is simple. To respect strength, never power.
Above all, to watch. To try and understand. To never look away. And never, never, to forget… another world is not only possible, she is on her way.
On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing."

Arundhati

“I hope you will go out and let stories, that is life, happen to you, and that you will work with these stories... water them with your blood and tears and your laughter till they bloom, till you yourself burst into bloom.”

Clarissa Pinkola Estés


“May the sun bring you new energy by day, may the moon softly restore you by night, may the rain wash away your worries, may the breeze blow new strength into your being, may you walk gently through the world and know it’s beauty all the days of your life.”
Apache Blessing


“I am not the first person you loved.
You are not the first person I looked at
with a mouthful of forevers. We
have both known loss like the sharp edges
of a knife. We have both lived with lips
more scar tissue than skin. Our love came
unannounced in the middle of the night.
Our love came when we’d given up
on asking love to come. I think
that has to be part
of its miracle.
This is how we heal.
I will kiss you like forgiveness. You
will hold me like I’m hope. Our arms
will bandage and we will press promises
between us like flowers in a book.
I will write sonnets to the salt of sweat
on your skin. I will write novels to the scar
of your nose. I will write a dictionary
of all the words I have used trying
to describe the way it feels to have finally,
finally found you.

And I will not be afraid
of your scars.

I know sometimes
it’s still hard to let me see you
in all your cracked perfection,
but please know:
whether it’s the days you burn
more brilliant than the sun
or the nights you collapse into my lap
your body broken into a thousand questions,
you are the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen.
I will love you when you are a still day.
I will love you when you are a hurricane.”

Clementine von Radics





Linkovi
vidrinsmijeh@gmail.com

SarahBernardht
12.01.2020., nedjelja
Razumijevanje

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Te fine sunčeve niti..
koje otapaju inje, i s ove i sa one
strane prozora i tebe,
polako, zanosno polako..
nenametljiva toplina koja ti daje rasti,
pa zbog te slobode daje osjećaj autentičnosti....pa se zbog te slobode smješkaš...smješka ti se srce.

To je moja prijateljica.
Ona ima jedan viši nivo razumijevanja ljudi.
Prošla je nevjeru i ostala s njim.
Razumije slabosti na taj način, što je i prema sebi i svojim porocima, blaga i nježna.
Meni su vjernost i odanost, one posljednje utvrde, vrijednosti kojih se ne odričem.
Pa sam tvrda u tome, stroga i nesmiljena.
Ljubav mi nije igra.
Preozbiljno i preosobno doživljavam stvari, život, ljude i pojave.
Ne diraj mi u svetinju.

A opet..s druge strane..ajmo ruku na srce..
ljubavlju sam u stanju proglasiti
svako zanosno pretapanje
boja, tonova, struktura,
svaki dodir nježnosti i prepoznavanja.

" Kazuj robe, od kuda si iz plemena kojega si? Ja se zovem EL Muharem iz plemena starih Azra, što za LJUBAV život gube i umiru kada LJUBE!" ( Heine, u Šantićevom prijevodu)

Ljubavna kakva već jesam, vidim je u svemu.
U došaptavanju vjetra s mladim izdancima trave. U pticama. U blagoj siječanjskoj svjetlosti, koja svemu podaruje obrise otpuštanja.
Pa zdušno pretjerujem u tome, kao i u svemu.

Tako sam je zapravo nadarena vidjeti i tamo, gdje je uopće nema.
To je moj jauk u ljubavnim odnosima.
I drugim odnosima.
Podarim ti osobine koje nemaš i nikada ih nećeš imati.
Pa te time zapravo samo frustriram, jer iz aviona se vidi da ti nisi to kakvim te vidim.

Iako svesrdno umišljam i još ti i kažem:
vidim te kakvog te Bog zamislio.
Ma daj zamisli.

Pa se onda čudim kada progledam.
Jer progleda se kad -tad.

Moja prijateljica sve razumije.
Volim reći da sam empatična, ali naspram nje..još učim i razvijam se.
I ona se naljuti. Bude luda, bude tužna.
Al brzo shvati.
Pa prihvati.
Pa okrene na humor i otpusti.
A pritom nimalo ne gubi svoje tračnice i svoj vlak.

Sve su to učenja, voli ona reći.
Susretneš se sa svojom tugom i sa sobom.
Ne koprcaj se, pusti da te potpuno preplavi.
Slušaj što ti to pokušava reći.
Sve je to ljudski i ništa ljudsko ne treba ti biti strano.

Ona u svemu fura svoj film.
Oprosti i doista prihvati.
Tako je lijepo zaštićena od daljnjih
( samo) povreda.

Pa učim od nje. Gledam kako joj se lijepe zjenice smješkaju, kako sjaji dok se ja znojim, patim od psihosomatike, guši me u grlu, prsištu.

Ako si dala sve, rekla sve, ne koprcaj se, otpusti.

Nikog ne možeš nagnati da te voli. Da je vjeran. Nježan. Samo tvoj.
To je stvar osobnog izbora.
I zrelosti.
I spremnosti.
Za Ljubav.


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