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Who was Captain Nemo?
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Beautiful Melodious Music
Some changes in the forum's software made the videos in the posts from pp1-16 disappear. Just open the links visible in the posts in new tabs.
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Great Craftsmanship and Industrial Design
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Topic about substances that could inhibit the Coronavirus infection
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Sunburns: how to treat and prevent
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Dr Brad Stanfield YouTube Channel
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Dr. Sten Ekberg YouTube Channel
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Dr. Eric Berg DC YouTube Channel
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KenDBerryMD YouTube Channel
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motivationaldoc YouTube Channel
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Istria is the world's best region for extra virgin olive oils, six years in a row (Well it had to be said ;-))
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THE BEST ANSWER TO WHITE GUILT (Don't know if it is the "best", but definitely a usable one.)
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JENNIFER MOLESKI - YouTube Channel
One of the best channels out there, particularly for women, and particularly for those tempted by feminism and who are not irretrievable yet.
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YOUR WINGMAM (dating advice)
Although I do not agree with some things, like the apparent acceptance of casual dating as something normal (although she seems to have changed after some criticism from me, and even incorporated some of my comments in her videos), the channel is still very worth watching if one filters these aspects out.
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TAYLOR THE FIEND
Channel about modern dating and relationships. Often caricatural and exterme, and oriented resolutely against marriage, which I disapprove, but there are also some very useful insights to be found, if one keeps thinking with one's own head.
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MANOSPHERE
Channel about modern dating and relationships. Similar to "Taylor the Fiend", but sometimes with a different emphasis and some studies results. I actually didn't watch much of his videos, and learned about them recently on "Taylor the Fiend" as they seem to have a cooperation.
HERE IS AN EXAMPLE OF THAT COOPERATION, and mostly a great video to watch, although I don't agree with some things, but despite that very much worth watching.
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FAIL FOR YOU
Hilarious and instructive. Don't agree with everything, but gets seal of approval. (I must admit that I didn't check it for a long time.)
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RED WOLF
Former Russian psychologist talks about female nature, psychology, dating, relationship. Unfortunately, he doesn't make videos anymore,but those he made are worth watching
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All those YouTube channels make me cringe for various reasons, because they do not represent levels of humanity high enough, but still, as someone said, a wise man can learn something from everyone. Particularly if he uses his own critical thinking.
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Casey Zander YouTube Channel
Video channel about building a masculine frame. I do not consider the masculinity paradigm presented here to be complete, but it's a start, although some things are quite simplistic and do not include a higher life wisdom about how a Man and a Woman must create life together. Masculine frame is one thing, but knowing what to do with it is complete masculinity. In the following links, more comments on Stormfront:
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Comment 2
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Alexander Grace YouTube Channel
Channel analyzing the relationship of the sexes, mostly through a perspective connecting biological evolution and the psychological dimension. While the author has recently more or less evolved from the advocacy of promiscuity to more fundamental values (still unclear), he is still stuck into reductive individualism and libertarianism, not understanding the importance of the collective and the need for a political transformation of culture. However, some very good psychological insights, but insights that have a "ceiling" in the spiritual height of that individual, which is not sufficient; too stuck in relativism. He is also too stuck inside animal models, not understanding that Humans are not animals, and have much higher potentials that must be activated. His ideas unfortunately don't help in that process of humanization and spiritualization. That little cunt even silent banned me for contradicting him and for offering better paradigms than his, but if you keep your critical mind, the channel is still worth watching.
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Captain's Blog
23.07.2022., subota
What is Leadership in a Relationship and in Marriage?
I may write something longer in the future, but just a few words for now.
Leadership has many aspects, for example making clear that you demand the acceptance of leadership and will not accept nonsense, but what I want to mention here is the real practical goal of the masculine leadership, which is the creation of a team!
The leader must be able to take decisions alone if the situation demands it, and will not debate about it, but in a relatively normal situation, the leader must, first create a team, and them lead that team.
This presupposes that he will make himself accepted as the leader, firstly by showing leadership ability (aka masculinity) and secondly by demanding that recognition, otherwise... no relationship or marriage (aka "adio bella").
But then he must build a team with him as leader and with a woman and her feminine nature and role.
That means that he must make conscious to both, to himself and to the woman that they are a team and that they are in it together.
The boyfriend-girlfriend phase serves the purpose of establishing the team and establishing the basics of its functioning.
Those basics are leadership, but also communication and constant feedback - leadership is not tyranny, but a team thing.
But it is even much more than that: it is voluntary and eager participation and contribution.
Only when this community, this team based on participation of both to create something better in common is established, only when the commitment of both for that common enterprise is assured can come marriage.
And when children come, you, as the team leader, have to make them members of the team under the leadership of you and your wife, but you being the ultimate leader.
You have to get your children to feel that they are also part of a team, and that you are all in it together. They accept your authority as benevolent leader, understanding that whatever you do is for the common good, BUT, they also must feel part of it, participate and contribute, give feedback and ideas, and you have to take it all in account and make them welcome to participate, and even feel the responsibility to participate.
None of this is a game for power, neither between you or your wife, not with or between your children. Your leadership must be unconditional, precisely because it is not about your egoism, but you must correct egoism if it appears among the members of your team, and make them understand that this is not about egoism, but about working and progressing together,
Of course it absolutely does NOT mean that anyone's individuality must be suppressed.
It is exactly the opposite. It is through the development of each individuality, including your own, that each individuality can contribute the best.
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