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teach me tonight
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Everybody is free to wear sunscreen
by Baz Luhrman
Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of '97,
Wear sunscreen. If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term
benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis or
reliable then my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice....now.
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, nevermind, you won't understand the power and
beauty of your youth until they've faded, but trust me in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of
yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous
you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future, or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra
equation by chewing bubblegum.
The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind: the kind that blindsides
you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.
Sing.
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts; don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Floss.
Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is
long, and in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive; forget the insults. (if you succeed in doing this, tell me how).
Keep your old love letters; throw away your old bank statements.
Stretch.
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people
I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives; some of the most interesting 40 year
olds I know still don't.
Get plenty of Calcium. Be kind to your knees -- you'll miss them when they're gone.
Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll
divorce at 40; maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary.
Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself, either. Your choices are half
chance, so are everybody else's.
Enjoy your body: use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or what other people think of it; it's the
greatest instrument you'll ever own.
Dance...even if you have no where to do it but in your own living room.
Read the directions (even if you don't follow them).
Do not read beauty magazines; they will only make you feel ugly.
Get to know your parents; you never know when they'll be gone for good.
Be nice to your siblings: they're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in
the future.
Understand that friends come and go, but what a precious few should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps
and geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you
were young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard.
Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.
Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths: prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old; and when you
do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children
respected their elders.
Respect your elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse,
but you never know when either one might run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you are 40, it will look 85.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia;
dispensing it is a way of wishing the past from the disposal--wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts, and
recycling it for more than it's worth.
But trust me, on the sunscreen.
Revelation
by Robert Frost
We make ourselves a place apart
Behind light words that tease and flout,
But oh, the agitated hear
Till someone really find us out.
'Tis pity if the case require
(Or so we say) that in the end
We speak the literal to inspire
The understanding of a friend.
But so with all, from babes that play
At hid-and-seek to God afar,
So all who hide too well away
Must speak and tell us where they are.
The Road not taken
by Robert Frost
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
TRENUTNO:
Čitam:
Glaser, StraussThe Discovery of Grounded Theory: strategies for qualitative research Za ispit
Razmišljam:
Kako skinuti još 10 kila (već 3 godine) i napisati svoj prvi ljubavni roman (već dvije godine)
Muči me:
Kada ću i ja dobiti svoju šansu
email:
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Nakon što si/ste slučajno ili namjerno obznanila radoznaloj osobi da eto ništa od djece, u velikoj većini slučajeva slijedi još jedno biserno pitanje: „A u kome je problem?“ Zar je to važno, a ako je i važno problem je prvenstveno u osobi koja postavlja to pitanje.
Smatram da oni koji postavljaju ovo pitanje, trebaju stati i na sekundu razmisliti zašto im je to važno znati. Je li zato jer su zapravo prikriveni znanstvenici koji rade revolucionarno istraživanje o neplodnosti? Ili im se to pitanje nameće samo od sebe ili jednostavno zato jer su znatiželjni ko psi? Kako god bilo, opet neplodnu osobu (ili u još gorem slučaju par) se stavlja u tatalno neugodnu situaciju i kako god da odgovori/e osjećaj nakon njega gorak.
A što učiniti kad vam/nam netko postavi ovo pitanje. Naravno opet ovisi tko ga postavlja. Ako je to vaša super dobra prijateljica koja zna sve o vama to je ok, ali takva osoba vam sigurno neće postaviti to pitanje. Nakon mnogo grešaka koje sam učinila i razgovora o mojoj neplodnosti u koje sam se svjesno ili nesvjesno upetljavala, sada mi se čini da je najbolje odgovoriti:
a) zar je to zaista važno? ili
b) mislim da Vas se to ne tiče
Kako god bilo na svakome od nas je da odaberemo koliko, kada i kome ćemo reći i želimo li uopće reći odogovor na ovo pitanje, ali kad osoba pređe granicu dobrog ukusa (osobito ako se radi o ženici iz susjednstva koja je sa vašom ujnom išla u osnovnu školu), mislim da dalje od „To Vas se gospođo ne tiče“, ne treba ići.
