This is a work in progress, and I will just sketch it for now instead of writing the full article, so that I feel motivated to actually write that full article. The first step is taken, so that others can follow.
This is the reason why the style might appear a bit awkward sometimes, because I might make additions that are difficult to seamlessly integrate into the existing text, without rewriting the whole thing.
See ADDITION from 11.3.2023 (European notation)
I'm not sure if I mentioned masculine imprint in previous posts, but if I didn't explicitly, here it is.
A Woman, or more exactly a girl, more often that not needs to be imprinted by masculinity and humanity to become a real person, a human person, an individual.
Otherwise many girls are empty and without a core, and the slaves of various sensual energies that control them; energies of sexual absorption and being absorbed, o a purely physical level, often manifested as "fun". They often are just interested to try this sensory stimulation or that sensory stimulation, all are external sensory stimulation. They don't have an individualized core (a soul) searching for another individualized core, just "fun", cute, exciting stuff...
A high quality girl has that core. Maybe not fully developed, because she still must find the Man to put in that core, for it to be complete, but that's the kind of Man she is searching, the one with a full masculine core, to become her life core.
Boys need imprint too, but there is an evolutionary difference that demands responsibility and leadership from men, and the imprint on Boys is of a very different nature.
When there is no soul imprint on girls, boys tend to compete for being the most fun, interesting and exciting externality for girls, instead of being and imposing strong leadership and masculinity and refusing that kind of female coreless, soulless animality, probably because boys are not imprinted the right way these days to develop true core/soul masculinity.
The initial imprint should ideally come from the father, but even with a strong leader type father, girls can make the wrong choices because they of course separate their father from the potential partners the have around them, because it is not the same energy. And also because that father might be clueless about modern girls, and give them an insufficient soul imprint, maybe idolizing his daughters instead of individualizing their souls.
So a Man must be able to imprint the psyche of a girl with his full Masculinity, regardless of the job done by her father, because his imprint has logically a different range that the one of the father. It must be full range, full spectrum, including the body at levels specific to a masculine-feminine relationship.
This is not just sex, but also emotionality that must be totally personalized, and beyond that the creation of the person of a girl in its completeness.
A Man must be able to do that if the groundwork has been made before and if the girl is quality enough, and not contaminated by various other wrong imprints.
What does it mean?
It means that You must be a full and complete person first, to be capable of such full imprint.
It means that you must have an individualized core, a soul, not just be an animal of the senses, an intelligent animal without a life core, and made just of senses.
People like that don't have any real substance, no real core individuality, just an endless stream of sensual experiences, and some of them are very good at providing for those experiences for themselves and for others, basically drowning them into that overload of superficial sensuality of all kinds and losing the little individual soul that they had.
For them, sexuality is not this deep core personal individual human thing, it's just something impersonal, external, not an unique exchange between two cores unique to each other, united in one.
They definitely don't search for the experiences of the soul, going deeper and deeper into the individual causal core from which true and complete life is created, but are satisfied with the sensual stream on the surface, and soon loose the ability to identify their core at all.
What does it mean energetically?
It means that you stand above automatic reactive energies of sensuality and sexuality, and integrate the full spectrum of body energies into awareness coming from your aware masculine core of will and action.
You become a reality that is stronger and more true than the external sensory inputs a girl receives, because you are the active, directing core of your own reality, the active transforming force and core of life and external reality, and therefore become her core, her spiritual leader.
Your imprint in a girl is You, your core itself, and you become the central part of her psyche, her core.
(Of course, if you are dealing with a lost sensual intelligent animal, get away fast!)
This is the basis of individualization of a relationship with a girl/woman: becoming her core, the masculine core that is you in your full individuality, and which moves things in reality, and also in the inner reality of both of you.
You are the creator of life, the life force, the giver of direction, and you become that core of life for her - life that she will then nurture under your leadership and protection, and give you her feminine feedback through the communication you must always encourage. Then you can start creating together.
Always pay attention to that feedback, even if it is non verbal. Pay attention to her emotions and encourage her to express her emotions instead of considering them silly. It shows that you care.
But you should be able to lead them towards the integration into the core.
Of course, it is far easier if you actually care and are the type comfortable with your own emotions and don't see them as weaknesses - unless the are actually weaknesses...
Masculinity is strength, and is having emotions from that benevolent masculine strength. But it is NOT the good boy's need to feel accepted, doing everything to please her like a good doggie.That is not masculine at all. You show your emotions and care for her emotions because it is not a problem for you to care, and because you do care, or you are an idiot. Caring strength is not weakness or "vulnerability", it is masculine strength and showing that you are a person who cares in general , and for her in particular.
So OK I digressed a bit there. Back to the core imprint:
Body energies of sensuality and sexuality are not impersonal anymore, not just impersonal reactive energies but are totally integrated into the aware core, and their nature transmuted into that integrated being, person and individuality that is the true Human being.
In other words you are first the master and leader of yourself, and all your body energies are subordinated to You, what is essentially the spiritual core of the being, the individual, the directing core of action of the individual.
If your energy integration is strong enough, it creates it's own causal reality that is stronger that the chaotic, uncentered sensual and sexual energies in a girl, and she becomes a full human being too, a full person, a full individual with a core, and those loose impersonal sensual energies disappear as such from her and become integrated in a core of integrated individualized life that is now Her, and you can then have a true partnership with that girl or woman.
In a way, You will have set her free from the cage of her disconnected sensual reactivity, and given her a core, a full soul. That liberation is a source of joy, because one is not a slave of reactivity anymore and enters into the realm of light, that is freedom.
This is what masculine leadership ultimately means vis a vis a woman. Not just leadership in life, but a spiritual leadership.
Through that leadership of the masculine core - YOU - which is now her core, you become true partners in life, the true life unit.
And the exchange at all levels between that core that is You, and her who is your focus of interest for life together, becomes constant.
However, when I say that she must be your focus of interest for life together, that doesn't mean that she is your focus as such, which is the mistake some men make. Your focus is "You", not in the sense of egoism and desires, but your core, your action, something independent of her.
You are the force of life first and foremost, and it is from this position of independent self-existing force of life that you interact with her.
Benevolently, lovingly, but always as this untouchable core that is you, that untouchable and unshakeable force of life from within, existing by yourself as such. Only then do you have your masculine core and can imprint it in her.
Of course, it is also possible to grow together in that direction, and correct each other. But in this day and age of extreme challenges to the spiritual development of human beings, you must count on yourself to be capable of doing the job, and be stronger that everything else.
Of course again, your job is not to salvage the contaminated, but to find someone who is of sufficient quality, with a sufficient human and individualization potential, and then to lead in the right direction.
Because if you feel that she is resisting that individualization and is invested in superficial fun and superficial external stimuli, don't waste your time with her.
Which doesn't mean that you shouldn't listen to her input, because sometimes, she might be spiritually more developed than you in some areas, more of a full person. But you must assess that input carefully, to determine if it comes from the development of core spirituality or from the various feminist garbage she might have been subjected to.
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ADDITION (11.3.2023 - European notation)
I would like to "correct" certain things in the "Sexualization" part of the "Dating Advice for Boys".
I cannot do it there because it seems that post reached its size limit and won't accept any additions.
The thing is that in modern times, girls are already sexualized in the wrong way by so many external influences, even if they are virgins (see my article "Why men must demand virginity from women), that what one must do first is to desexualize them.
It means that one must reposition their being in its true human place the core, the "soul"- the "heart", not just as the place of emotions, but the place that integrates and transcends all reactive body energies, going beyond them into the true Self.
This is done by being a full human masculine being, a MAN, whose reality is more real than anything external. Your core, your soul, must be more real that any externality.
Sex, as I said before, in itself is impersonal, and at that impersonal level is animal.
Its essence is breaking the barriers. It is something that breaks rules and even derives perverse pleasure in breaking them and penetrating barriers.
BUT, this is true only if the being is at an animal level depending on the external and relations of power in the external World. The human animal then derives perverse pleasure in breaking human rules and in reverting to animal relations of power. Those rules are perceived as weak and those who follow them, also as weak,good little boys, while animals are perceived as strong. This is one of the reasons of female infidelity, the search for that animal, perverse power (from the human point of view) and the breaking of rules and penetration of barriers that are perceived as things of external power to be broken with animal power, not something coming from the inner core..
The solution for being Human is obviously not in rules then, but in the creation of a life core that is above this animal level of power vis a vis the external and of others, so the external rules and barriers are not there to be broken, because humanity is not based on following them, but having a true human core, an inner source of self, an individuality.
A quality girl has a core like that to a certain extent, if created by her father or in other ways (books she read, or other influences), but in entering a relationship with her, one must reinforce that core and make it the core of the relationship, and then go sexual, but not animal sexual in perversely breaking rules and penetrating barriers,but by taking over her entire psyche and body energy system from the Masculine Core, and she must will fully surrender to that core in her heart first, becoming part of that core, the result being a COMMON CORE.
Then, the sexual act becomes a spiritual act from that core of life, and the "sexual" pleasure itself becomes of a different transcending nature because unifying two complete individualities with a common core. And if you think that it is weaker than animal sex, you are completely wrong...
It is far stronger, and doesn't have this destructive property on the soul, but a reinforcing quality instead.
I'm aware that these few words might not be enough to convey what I mean, so use your intuition, because the subject would indeed deserve an entire book.
Post je objavljen 01.03.2023. u 08:47 sati.