The following link leads to my contribution to the SF topic "Views on Traditionalism?".
There I explain what I call the "Transformation Sequence", which is the only structurally possible way to transform Western Civilization from a culture of promiscuity and immorality into a culture of responsibility, through Neo-Patriarchy.
The full explanation comes towards the end of the topic - read it all.
Here's a quote:
"There is an order, a transformation sequence in this, and one cannot put the cart before the oxes: Men must retake leadership and responsibility and make women valuable again so that taking responsibility makes sense to them, and by taking responsibility in such a society that is valuable for them, they will be incentivized to become even more complete humans, because such culture would naturally promote it."
In essence, men must retake leadership and demand value from women (purity, virginity); demand that women become once again valuable to them, Then those women will take great care with whom they will have sex, because their value will be at stake, and by doing that women will in fact demand value from men, thus closing the virtuous circle.
This is the simplified transformation sequence: the initialization and completion of the virtuous circle.
ADDITION:
A woman asked me what is the interest for women to remain virgins.
The answer is not to be found on a purely individual and direct level (although, for full humans it is to be found there too), but for the average population, the answer lies in the collective level in an indirect way.
It would not be a choice for women, but a demand of Men to women, or they will not marry them.
If they want to marry, women (girls) will not engage in promiscuous sex with the bad boys, which will make them sexually unavailable for men who want just sex, forcing even those men to reconsider their motivations.
The result would be a different culture where promiscuity from both women and men would be excluded, and that culture would develop in a much healthier and humane direction, which would benefit women, marriage and children.
But read the "Transformation Sequence" above.
Post je objavljen 10.06.2022. u 14:53 sati.