9 Confessions Of A Girl Who Used To Date A Short Guy
You wonder if he shops for boys' clothes, and it makes you uncomfortable. You used to love being a tall, sexy woman, but now it just feels like a problem over which you have zero control.
You have to put away your heels and just resign yourself to wearing ballet flats for all eternity. When you need to complain about something beyond your control, he empathizes. Does the idea of towering over your date bother you? At first, I didn't think of him romantically since he was shorter than me--it seemed like he was off limits or something!
Ladies: The Case for Dating a Short Guy - You have to put away your heels and just resign yourself to wearing ballet flats for all eternity.
The message many women send shoorter men goes something like this: Yeah, sorry, but nothing you could say or do could ever give you a chance with me. Ladies, give these short guys a chance, please! Why not date a short man? Men and women both fall prey to the remarkably persistent myth that sexual attraction works on auto-pilot, as if we are all preprogrammed to be attracted to the ones who captivate our adting />Yet the truth is far less mysterious. My client, Alexis, comes from the most machismo family I can imagine, full of firefighters, Marines, and gobs of Old Spice. Okay, maybe not the last one. She is one of my clients who has never dated a short man, and she has no intention to ever date one. Sexual attraction largely derives from your upbringing. And it is possible! The first step is to dig deep and ask yourself what in your history makes you attracted to a certain type, as well as what in your history repels you from a certain type. Some of the kindest, strongest and most committed ddating I know are short. I want to know the following information: Is he reliable? Is he usually on time? Does he have a job that allows him to care of himself financially? If not, is he working his fingers to the bone looking for one? But as far as how short or tall he is? Come on, we can do better than that. About the Author: has had extensive training in conducting couples therapy and is the author of.