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BOL-Chat slusa Radio a Vi? Accompany your flirtatious, teasing remarks with these types of emoticons to make your intent obvious, yet palatable. Napomena: U jednoj SMS poruci možete navesti samo jednu karakteristiku.
If you're getting a good response, heat things up! Ulaskom na sajt potvrđujem da imam 18 ili više godina i da je legalno da pristupam potencijalno eksplicitnim sadržajima. Objašnjenje vam stiže u trenu.
BOL-Chat uvijek korak ispred ostalih! - Acknowledging this silliness does a lot to make you seem more down-to-earth and less creepy.
Start the conversation casually. As in the real world, the first step to flirting is to get over your cold feet and jump right in! The hardest part of flirting is to break through your initial reluctance, so if you're having a hard time taking the plunge, just remind yourself that no matter how badly it goes, it'll be less stressful than an equivalent real-world encounter. Asking for help with a work or school-related problem is almost always a good bet, as is asking a question about something striking about the person. Did you see those guys when they last came to town? After your initial greeting and exchange of pleasantries, you'll probably want to ask how the person's doing just like you might in the real world. Rather than asking a question, you can also simply offer your comments on these things. Don't pry into his or her personal life — keep things light, fun, and focused on worry-free subjects. A minute or two is great for breaking the ice, but much more can get boring fast. You can even offer your own opinions and suggestions. What sorts of other bands do you like? Everyone likes a good sense of humour. Try to be playful and even slightly sarcastic as you respond to the statements of the person you're talking to. These responses have the added benefit of being natural launching points for conversations about your hobbies, like the writing you're doing on the side and the great bourbon you tasted the other day. Does he even have time to record between rehab stints? When you've established a good rapport with the person you're talking to, it's a good idea to up the ante by getting in a good tease or two. As you do so, maintain a playful air to keep the atmosphere light. Obviously, you'll want to avoid sore subjects that have to do with this person's personal life, career, aspirations, and so on. It's easy to think up a different dig later, but it's not so easy to talk your way out of the situation after hurting someone's feelings. One of the handy things about flirting via IM services with emoticons as opposed to via purely text-based channels like email is that it's possible to make the intended emotion behind your words explicitly clear. Accompany your flirtatious, teasing remarks with these types of emoticons to make your intent obvious, yet palatable. Sprinkle them sparingly throughout your conversation to make your flirtatious jabs a little sweeter and to make the intent behind ambiguous sentences a little clearer. If you use emoticons constantly, you'll end up seeming juvenile or annoying. If you're getting a good response, heat things up! If your conversation partner seems to be reacting with good humor to your jokes and teasing, you may want to make the transition into more intimate territory. Do this gently — don't go from lighthearted teasing into full-on come-on mode. Instead, make subtle innuendos. Imply things, don't outright state them. There's a certain degree of silliness to any sort of flirting or come-on. Acknowledging this silliness does a lot to make you seem more down-to-earth and less creepy. If you're getting a bad response, back off. Flirting with people anywhere means dealing with the possibility of rejection. Online, where communication is cheap and impersonal, this possibility is a very real one indeed. If the person you're flirting with doesn't seem to be reciprocating, cut your losses and exit the conversation gracefully. For instance, you might try saying that you have something you need to do homework or job-related activities work well as excuses or that you need to go to sleep. The exact excuse you use to exit the conversation isn't important — what is important is that you respect the wishes of the person you're flirting with and avoid dragging out a needlessly embarrassing exchange. Talk to you later! A good rule for flirting online and in real life is to end the encounter by leaving the other person wanting more. In the world of IM flirting, this means that you should shoot a quick goodbye message before the conversation starts to grow stale. This way, the person you've been IMing with will have only fun, positive memories of the encounter — not awkward memories of struggling to find something to say as the conversation goes on and on. Emoticons can help here. Don't be too self-deprecating. Simply put, confidence is sexy. This is more true for real-life situations than it is online, but this mantra has some truth in the world of IM flirting as well. For instance, you'll want to avoid making lots of jokes at your own expense. Just one is plenty — it shouldn't be a recurring theme throughout your conversation. Doing this too often can quickly turn an otherwise flirtatious conversation into one in which you appear needy and self-loathing. Any sort of pointed or caustic remarks about yourself or someone else don't have a place in flirtatious conversations. Don't be too sappy. People like flirting to be fun. For most people, receiving compliments is only fun up to a point — getting more than one or two can make someone feel embarrassed and self-conscious. It can also make him or her question your motives, leading the person to believe that you may be trying to get something out of him or her. Besides, the wooing power of flowery, gushing compliments is diminished to say the least when the compliments are displayed in a tiny box at the bottom of the screen alongside cartoon smiley faces. Don't be too clingy. Flirting with someone for the first time via IM is ample evidence that your relationship is a very, very casual one. Because of this, you'll absolutely want to keep your conversation casual. Don't bring up love, long-term commitment, or anything similar when you flirt — these are giant red flags to the person you're talking to and, in most cases, will completely sabotage your chances of eventually winning a date. Different people have different attitudes towards when it's appropriate to use dirty language, potty humor, sexual references, and so on. Online, where bad language, violence, rude humor, and sex are all just a few clicks away, it's easy to forget that many people don't like being confronted with these types of shocking content. So, keep the conversation relatively PG until you know this person a little better.