Q & A Monday: No Chemistry on Date #1; Should I See Him Again?
In general, men are more likely to be forgiving of women of pretty much anything as long as they are young, thin and pretty. Not feeling it is not feeling it. Everyone would have their own perception on what you mean by that...
And tragically, this usually has the opposite effect—you just come off as boring and self-absorbed. He'll get the message. Of the participants polled, 59 percent of men and women said they would go on a second date with someone they had no romantic chemistry with on the first date. However, increasingly, this seems unfair — for everyone involved!
How to deal with a date when there’s no chemistry - I believe in chemistry on the first date, no need to go on a second... You seem like a great catch, though, and I wish you the best of luck in your search.
Lori met Harvey online. Harvey was overweight, and he dressed poorly. But Lori was able to overlook his physical traits, because she was drawn to many other qualities. He was smart, successful, grounded, and kind. He was a good listener. And he treated her with tremendous respect, always driving over an hour to meet her. Lori is used to men who treated her poorly. She had been married for 30 years to a disgusting cheating narcissist. And her boyfriends post-divorce were also unkind. They never made much of an effort to court her. She was always driving to them. I coached Lori to become a woman of value and stop letting men treat her like a last minute option. She stopped doing so much for men to give them a chance to step daying for her. She finally learned to lead with her feminine energy—to be nurturing and loving, to be sensual and playful, and most importantly, to receive from men. Finding a great guy is not just a matter frst luck.