If fear is your primary motivator in life, then you need to do something about it. It’s no use thinking, "next time I’ll do things differently" or "that will never happen to me again", while you continue to fill your mind with the same daily routine, the same negative thoughts and actions. Of course it will happen again! Stop trying to kid yourself into believing that things will mysteriously change for the better - they won’t. You need to take action now. Make your life positive! Make your.