Here's a reality crash course for you: No one on this earth is going to help you. A dismal, yet liberating thought. How is it liberating to think that you're on your own in the universe? Because once you realize and fully accept that no one is here to cater to your needs, you can throw off the chains that bind you and move toward self-sufficiency.Do you ask many questions of people? If so that's a good thing. We can never learn enough. But part of learning and growing is hands-on experience. Wha.