Most of us love to think that our problems are the result of the actions or in-actions of others, economic conditions, timing and any number of other things outside our control. These things do in fact have a bearing on our situations. They are not however, the root cause. The real problem lies within!Now that’s not something most of us want to hear. It’s much easier if we have an excuse or two for the situation, isn’t it? Unfortunately while there are always excuses, they seldom help.Our real e.