I have been called a control freak by my Aunt because I like things done a certain way. The right way the first time or don’t bother to do them at all. And so a lot of things do not get done as I do not have the time to devote to them that I know it will take to do them and my priority list is different than most peoples. Yesterday I was in a situation I did not ask for and the way I dealt with it shames me though I have been told it was out of my control.Yesterday in the car on the way to the s.