"And they lived happily ever after.........."Yeah right.Perhaps I'm a little bit jaded, since I work all day with couples in conflict.On the other hand, conflict comes to even the healthiest of marriages.It's just that we seem so unprepared for how to handle conflict. We know in our heads that "happily ever after" is true only in stories and fairly tales, yet in our hearts we long for it to be true.In the best of all possible worlds, we would be well prepared for handling conflict before we get .