How do I honor myself each day. The first rule is if it does not honor you it does not honor anyone. We need to know ourselves to honor ourselves. To know oneself one has to spend some time with just you. Time to talk to yourself, listen to your own preferences, meditate, visualize. Following ones intuition is the next step and perhaps you will not always follow it at first. You might need to experiment with following your gut feeling. But after you do that for a while you will soon see which c.