Q: Could you help us settle a growing conflict in our marriage? I always tell my wife I love her and would do anything in the world for her. That doesn’t seem to do it for her. In fact, her response usually is, “talk is cheap. I want you to show me that you love me.” I’m not sure what she means, and I need to figure it out fast.I think I might know where you are stuck. You see, there is a huge difference between declaration and demonstration. In my experience, most men have not made that importa.