After I'm dead I'd rather have people ask why I have no monument than why I have one.
Talking with you is sort of the conversational equivalent of an out of body experience.
What if this weren't a hypothetical question?
As long as you derive inner help and comfort from anything, keep it.
Make a decision, even if it's wrong.
The aim of life is self-development. To realize one's nature perfectly - that is what each of us is here for.
Never rely on the glory of the morning nor the smiles of your mother-in-law.