OH Boy!!! Spice has left the nest. That can be fixed, with a little effort, a little imagination, and will. That last one is the kicker. When the spice has fizzled out, there has got to be a will to get it back in the relationship. So there are a few things you can do to get the ball rolling again in the bedroom. First few things are easy, buy a sex toy. They can be a great healthy fun way to spice things up a bit. I mean don't go overboard and buy one of everything in the store, but I would d.