Our language and how we use it affects who we are and how we live. Our words color our experience just as our experience colors our words. Sometimes it's hard to understand just how much of a difference a change of vocabulary can make until you try it. Here are a few options for you to consider: 1. Become a mobile no-fire zone. Eliminate negative habits such as sarcasm, denigrating language, hate, spite and anger from your vocabulary and inform those around you that you are no longer accepting s.