The trick is to make sure you don't die waiting for prosperity to come.
Every moment of one's existence one is growing into more or retreating into less.
If you scatter thorns, don't go barefoot.
Winning is important to me, but what brings me real joy is the experience of being fully engaged in whatever I'm doing.
My philosophy is that not only are you responsible for your life, but doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment.
If you think taking care of yourself is selfish, change your mind. If you don't, you're simply ducking your responsibilities.
If a dog jumps in your lap, it is because he is fond of you; but if a cat does the same thing, it is because your lap is warmer.