It is only possible to live happily ever after on a day-to-day basis.
It is hard to fight an enemy who has outposts in your head.
When a thing ceases to be a subject of controversy, it ceases to be a subject of interest.
Silence is one of the hardest arguments to refute.
Sometimes you can't see yourself clearly until you see yourself through the eyes of others.
Therefore search and see if there is not some place where you may invest your humanity.
Obscurity is a good thing. You can fail in obscurity. It removes the fear of failure.