- Are you OK?
- Yes I am.
- So… do you want to fuck?
Richard paused for a second, struggling with the response – No, I don’t.
Short silence again. I am trying to think why he isn’t up to it. Anal sex is so much fun! I am deciding to ask him. – Do you not like it? Or you just don't do that?
- I've never done it.
Now I'm totally surprised. Never had anal sex??? He's 30 and he's been out for 5 years. How can that be possible? I'm thinking how to ask him about his reasons. – So… are you a top or a bottom?
- I'm mostly a top.
- Oh, so you have done it! – I am overjoyed that I figured him out. – You just haven't bottomed!
- That's right – he said. – As a matter of fact, I've been worrying since I saw you what will happen if you ask me to be a bottom. And I was even more afraid when I saw how big you are. I've been having problems with erection because of that.
- Aha! There we are! – I’ve been thinking to myself - I've been wondering all evening why his dick was mostly limp although he seemed to have been very into me. Now I know the reason!
- You shoudn’t worry about things like that. You should bottom only if you feel like it, not if somebody asks that of you. Besides, what made you think that I want to top you in the first place? I am actually versatile, and if you are a top, I'll be glad to bottom for you.
Richard was overjoyed with my response. Even though he wanted to please me, he had trouble with erection for the rest of the evening. He was probably too stressed and couldn’t relax with me. Nevertheless, the sex was good. I loved how sensual he was.
As for myself, I couldn’t help but wonder how deep and strong some stereotypes are. If an asian and white are together, everyone assumes that the asian must be the bottom. Even the aisans who prefer to top! And I’ve seen time and time again examples when this assumption simply was not true.
And another thing. Never underestimate the power and importance of talking about sex!
Post je objavljen 22.01.2006. u 22:39 sati.