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The most expensive dates in history
If you want to get rid of copious amounts of cash, though, the sky is the limit. In 2020, a Singaporean couple paid $2 million for a date that included private jets, diamonds, a stay at the Raffles Hotel, and an 18-course Michelin dinner. The vivid experience started at a rooftop restaurant, after which the couple retreated to the Outpost Hotel, where 10,000 roses were waiting for them, strewn around the room.
The U.S. doesn’t fall behind. Arnaud’s New Orleans restaurant charged almost $10 million for a Strawberries Arnaud. The dessert came with a “complimentary” drink, including 24-carat gold leaf flakes, Cristal Champagne, and a royal blue, 10.06-carat diamond engagement ring. If that weren’t impressive enough, a couple bought a house on their first date.
First date ideas rivaling an expensive date night
Expensive date ideas aren’t limited to a luxurious dinner. In fact, this is overly conventional and lacking in imagination. More creative approaches to a first date can include:
You can take your date on a helicopter tour over the Grand Canyon. Imagine standing side by side, champagne in hand, celebrating a new beginning above the clouds. The excitement of gliding over majestic landscapes will transform the date into a cherished memory.
It’s estimated that we forget almost 60% of unpleasant experiences but only 42% of pleasant ones. The above and the following date ideas should make for a pleasant memory as long as the person you’re seeing is willing to take part.
Stargazing is undeniably romantic. One of the best places is the Natural Bridges National Monument in Utah. It is the first certified International Dark Sky Park, the primary attraction being a phenomenon called the “river of light.” The Milky Way creates it as it rises over a natural rock formation, the Owachomo Bridge, which forms a window into the night sky, framing the multitude of stars visible to the naked eye.
Charter a sailboat or yacht for an adventure across the Aegean Sea and Greek islands. You can take turns steering into the sunset as scattered islands adorn the horizon, creating an unforgettable backdrop for romance.
Another memorable and extravagantly expensive experience includes the magic of the Northern Lights at Borealis Basecamp in Iceland, where glamping (luxury camping) blends with the enchantment of the breathtaking aurora borealis. As long as your partner is on the same page, you’ll relish in the experience of a front-row seat to one of nature’s most stunning shows from the comfort of your glamping retreat.
Do you have an artistic side? French wine will inspire you and your date’s brush strokes in an exclusive Parisian art studio. Who knows – you might even produce a masterpiece.
Another creative date idea is a jewelry-making workshop in Florence. In this workshop, participants craft personalized jewelry under the guidance of skilled artisans in the heart of the Italian city.
Experiences like these can forge a bond through a shared, pleasant memory. People who engage in reliving happy experiences report greater satisfaction and happiness. In a recent study, participants were divided into three groups, with one group being told to focus on objects of sentimental value, like photos, and another instructed to spend 20 minutes a day recalling a positive memory. The third group was asked to relax while thinking about a current problem or concern. The first two groups reported greater feelings of positivity.
That said, these date experiences aren’t guaranteed to be positive. Your date might be bored by stars, lack a creative flair, or be opposite to outdoor experiences, even in the luxury setting glamping provides. Being on the same page is crucial.
" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(109) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/19/extravagant-experiences-that-rival-even-the-priciest-dinner-dates/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(334) "Couples pay $123 for a date night in 2024 on average. The most expensive date nights are in Miami ($156), followed by Washington, D.C., and Seattle with $153 and $150. In Miami, dinner and a movie comprise more than a fifth (21%) of an average resident’s weekly income, making it the least affordable city for dating, […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(5099) "Couples pay $123 for a date night in 2024 on average. The most expensive date nights are in Miami ($156), followed by Washington, D.C., and Seattle with $153 and $150. In Miami, dinner and a movie comprise more than a fifth (21%) of an average resident’s weekly income, making it the least affordable city for dating, too. Time is money: date night expenses are $27 per hour based on the estimated time people spend.
If you want to get rid of copious amounts of cash, though, the sky is the limit. In 2020, a Singaporean couple paid $2 million for a date that included private jets, diamonds, a stay at the Raffles Hotel, and an 18-course Michelin dinner. The vivid experience started at a rooftop restaurant, after which the couple retreated to the Outpost Hotel, where 10,000 roses were waiting for them, strewn around the room.
The U.S. doesn’t fall behind. Arnaud’s New Orleans restaurant charged almost $10 million for a Strawberries Arnaud. The dessert came with a “complimentary” drink, including 24-carat gold leaf flakes, Cristal Champagne, and a royal blue, 10.06-carat diamond engagement ring. If that weren’t impressive enough, a couple bought a house on their first date.
Expensive date ideas aren’t limited to a luxurious dinner. In fact, this is overly conventional and lacking in imagination. More creative approaches to a first date can include:
You can take your date on a helicopter tour over the Grand Canyon. Imagine standing side by side, champagne in hand, celebrating a new beginning above the clouds. The excitement of gliding over majestic landscapes will transform the date into a cherished memory.
It’s estimated that we forget almost 60% of unpleasant experiences but only 42% of pleasant ones. The above and the following date ideas should make for a pleasant memory as long as the person you’re seeing is willing to take part.
Stargazing is undeniably romantic. One of the best places is the Natural Bridges National Monument in Utah. It is the first certified International Dark Sky Park, the primary attraction being a phenomenon called the “river of light.” The Milky Way creates it as it rises over a natural rock formation, the Owachomo Bridge, which forms a window into the night sky, framing the multitude of stars visible to the naked eye.
Charter a sailboat or yacht for an adventure across the Aegean Sea and Greek islands. You can take turns steering into the sunset as scattered islands adorn the horizon, creating an unforgettable backdrop for romance.
Another memorable and extravagantly expensive experience includes the magic of the Northern Lights at Borealis Basecamp in Iceland, where glamping (luxury camping) blends with the enchantment of the breathtaking aurora borealis. As long as your partner is on the same page, you’ll relish in the experience of a front-row seat to one of nature’s most stunning shows from the comfort of your glamping retreat.
Do you have an artistic side? French wine will inspire you and your date’s brush strokes in an exclusive Parisian art studio. Who knows – you might even produce a masterpiece.
Another creative date idea is a jewelry-making workshop in Florence. In this workshop, participants craft personalized jewelry under the guidance of skilled artisans in the heart of the Italian city.
Experiences like these can forge a bond through a shared, pleasant memory. People who engage in reliving happy experiences report greater satisfaction and happiness. In a recent study, participants were divided into three groups, with one group being told to focus on objects of sentimental value, like photos, and another instructed to spend 20 minutes a day recalling a positive memory. The third group was asked to relax while thinking about a current problem or concern. The first two groups reported greater feelings of positivity.
That said, these date experiences aren’t guaranteed to be positive. Your date might be bored by stars, lack a creative flair, or be opposite to outdoor experiences, even in the luxury setting glamping provides. Being on the same page is crucial.
" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1734599866) } [1]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(52) "Your Cheat Sheet On How To Date Women Outside The US" ["link"]=> string(91) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/18/your-cheat-sheet-on-how-to-date-women-outside-the-us/" ["comments"]=> string(99) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/18/your-cheat-sheet-on-how-to-date-women-outside-the-us/#respond" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(10) "Andrew Tch" } ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Wed, 18 Dec 2024 09:10:44 +0000" ["category"]=> string(13) "Dating Advice" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=9204" ["description"]=> string(362) "Hey there! As a seasoned dating counselor who’s constantly in touch with single ladies from various countries, I’m here to help you understand how to date a foreign girl in and beyond U.S. borders. From navigating cultural nuances to mastering cross-border communication, this guide is your key to dating foreign women secrets. The cultural nuances […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(9923) "Hey there! As a seasoned dating counselor who’s constantly in touch with single ladies from various countries, I’m here to help you understand how to date a foreign girl in and beyond U.S. borders. From navigating cultural nuances to mastering cross-border communication, this guide is your key to dating foreign women secrets.
When coaching men who want to meet and date foreign women, I always emphasize understanding cultural and social nuances that shape romantic expectations and behaviors in their love interest’s home country. This isn’t just about avoiding cultural misunderstanding—it’s about showing genuine respect and interest. For instance, if you want to meet Ukraine women, take the time to learn about their traditions, values, and what they prioritize in relationships. A little effort in understanding her culture can go a long way in building trust and a deeper connection.
Eastern European Women:
Western European Women:
Latin American Women:
Asian Women:
Let me know if you experienced any cultural surprises or norms while dating a foreign girl in America that I should add to my guide!
Having coached countless Westerners to meet foreign women properly, I’ve compiled a go-to list of bonding missteps to avoid based on key regions.
Latinas:
Eastern Europeans:
Western Europeans:
Asian Women:
The keys are being patient, not judging cultural differences based on your own norms, and doing extra listening early on.
Despite all online dating conveniences, effective virtual flirtation and courtship with foreign ladies still requires learning cultural signals, and projecting best selves digitally to sow promising seeds:
American men successfully meet foreign women online, as seen by 19% of US marriages now being between people of different cultures and over 94% of Americans approving of interracial marriage.
Interviewing foreign women online I asked to share what male actions drew attention to them. If you’re ready to sweep global beauty off her feet, check it out:
It’s normal to sometimes feel jealous when dating foreign women as they attract the eyes of men. Adding cultural differences and physical distance can make things harder. From working with diverse couples, I’ve seen what helps:
The main tips are catching jealousy early by sharing feelings calmly, hearing each other out, compromising on relationship needs, and strengthening the bond.
And there you have it — hope these tips give you the confidence to put yourself out there and meet singles overseas. Stay open-minded, lead with your heart not assumptions, and success can bloom if you’re willing to nurture cross-cultural care and understanding. Go get ‘em!
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When coaching men who want to meet and date foreign women, I always emphasize understanding cultural and social nuances that shape romantic expectations and behaviors in their love interest’s home country. This isn’t just about avoiding cultural misunderstanding—it’s about showing genuine respect and interest. For instance, if you want to meet Ukraine women, take the time to learn about their traditions, values, and what they prioritize in relationships. A little effort in understanding her culture can go a long way in building trust and a deeper connection.
Eastern European Women:
Western European Women:
Latin American Women:
Asian Women:
Let me know if you experienced any cultural surprises or norms while dating a foreign girl in America that I should add to my guide!
Having coached countless Westerners to meet foreign women properly, I’ve compiled a go-to list of bonding missteps to avoid based on key regions.
Latinas:
Eastern Europeans:
Western Europeans:
Asian Women:
The keys are being patient, not judging cultural differences based on your own norms, and doing extra listening early on.
Despite all online dating conveniences, effective virtual flirtation and courtship with foreign ladies still requires learning cultural signals, and projecting best selves digitally to sow promising seeds:
American men successfully meet foreign women online, as seen by 19% of US marriages now being between people of different cultures and over 94% of Americans approving of interracial marriage.
Interviewing foreign women online I asked to share what male actions drew attention to them. If you’re ready to sweep global beauty off her feet, check it out:
It’s normal to sometimes feel jealous when dating foreign women as they attract the eyes of men. Adding cultural differences and physical distance can make things harder. From working with diverse couples, I’ve seen what helps:
The main tips are catching jealousy early by sharing feelings calmly, hearing each other out, compromising on relationship needs, and strengthening the bond.
And there you have it — hope these tips give you the confidence to put yourself out there and meet singles overseas. Stay open-minded, lead with your heart not assumptions, and success can bloom if you’re willing to nurture cross-cultural care and understanding. Go get ‘em!
" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1734513044) } [2]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(49) "How Digital Storytelling Enhances Dating Profiles" ["link"]=> string(88) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/13/how-digital-storytelling-enhances-dating-profiles/" ["comments"]=> string(96) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/13/how-digital-storytelling-enhances-dating-profiles/#respond" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(10) "Andrew Tch" } ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Fri, 13 Dec 2024 09:19:59 +0000" ["category"]=> string(98) "InterestingCrafting a VideoDigital StorytellingEnhances Dating ProfilesprofilesVideo Introductions" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=9200" ["description"]=> string(373) "Today, while families connect seamlessly, some people are working on ways to connect with someone in a very heartfelt and special way, like online dating. It’s a known avenue where hearts seem to be just around the corner, connecting and building relationships that last. In today’s hypersensitive and super-fast world of online dating, however, first […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(5841) "Today, while families connect seamlessly, some people are working on ways to connect with someone in a very heartfelt and special way, like online dating. It’s a known avenue where hearts seem to be just around the corner, connecting and building relationships that last.
In today’s hypersensitive and super-fast world of online dating, however, first impressions are everything.
While eye-catching and very impressive photos and bios have long been the foundation of dating profiles, digital storytelling today emerges as a boosting factor splashing color into a person’s life. This offers a new and compelling way to showcase personality, depth, and authenticity.
By incorporating unique and engaging video intros and interestingly relatable narratives, users like you can elevate your profile, making it stand out from the crowd, and creating lasting and fascinating connections.
Like you, almost everyone is naturally drawn to stories. They provide context, spark emotion, and reveal what static text and photos cannot. A carefully crafted story shared via video allows users to:
Videos turn the “impersonal” into something personal, making dating profiles feel less like a catalog and more like a meaningful introduction to someone relatable.
Text-based bios are often limited by word count, context, or lack of emotional engagement. Adding a short, well-produced video can transform how your profile is perceived.
A video captures your tone, body language, and enthusiasm in ways words cannot.
Profiles with videos are statistically more likely to receive responses. According to dating platform studies, users with video intros see up to 50% more matches.
Just by crafting a uniquely “yours” video, you already show you’re serious about making heartfelt connections. It’s not just about making and posting a quite commendable profile; you demonstrate how you invest an effort so someone special can resonate or relate.
What sets you apart? Whether it’s your passion for adventure, love for cooking, or quirky pet, share a slice of your life that highlights your authenticity. Be concise yet captivating, focusing on one or two key aspects that define you.
Perfection isn’t the goal – connection is. Smile, maintain eye contact, and speak naturally. Authenticity often trumps polished perfection, making you appear more approachable and sincere.
Don’t worry if you’re not a tech wizard. You can work with easily accessible tools, especially an AI video editor, so you can greatly simplify your video profile-making process. These platforms offer:
When choosing an AI video tool, opt for one with intuitive features and strong customer support to help bring your storytelling vision to life.
The modern dater craves connection and relatability, and video storytelling provides an edge:
A heartfelt video introduction lets viewers experience your energy and personality, sparking curiosity or empathy.
Seeing and hearing someone fosters trust. A video introduction helps people feel they already know you, even before the first chat.
Those who resonate with your story are likely to be interested and swipe right, which might just be the starting point for better-quality connections.
Today’s digital dating spaces continue to evolve remarkably, and profiles like yours are shifting from static presentations or still images to dynamic and more moving experiences. That’s why incorporating video and storytelling into your profile not only keeps it relevant but also makes sure they’re engaging and effective.
As more platforms embrace video-first features, integrating storytelling into profiles will likely become a standard practice that sets today’s trend. Those who adopt it now will be spearheading a charge in creating richer, more memorable online interactions.
Many dating apps today spell people only through images that could somehow evoke different meanings. Taking special effort, however, in crafting your dating profile, especially with digital storytelling in videos, you keep up with the trend – piercing through the hearts of users across the globe.
That’s why, by sharing an honest and personal story through your creative video introduction, you’re more likely to add that sprinkle of star quality to your profile, capturing someone’s interest-where all the magic starts.
" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(93) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/13/how-digital-storytelling-enhances-dating-profiles/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(373) "Today, while families connect seamlessly, some people are working on ways to connect with someone in a very heartfelt and special way, like online dating. It’s a known avenue where hearts seem to be just around the corner, connecting and building relationships that last. In today’s hypersensitive and super-fast world of online dating, however, first […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(5841) "Today, while families connect seamlessly, some people are working on ways to connect with someone in a very heartfelt and special way, like online dating. It’s a known avenue where hearts seem to be just around the corner, connecting and building relationships that last.
In today’s hypersensitive and super-fast world of online dating, however, first impressions are everything.
While eye-catching and very impressive photos and bios have long been the foundation of dating profiles, digital storytelling today emerges as a boosting factor splashing color into a person’s life. This offers a new and compelling way to showcase personality, depth, and authenticity.
By incorporating unique and engaging video intros and interestingly relatable narratives, users like you can elevate your profile, making it stand out from the crowd, and creating lasting and fascinating connections.
Like you, almost everyone is naturally drawn to stories. They provide context, spark emotion, and reveal what static text and photos cannot. A carefully crafted story shared via video allows users to:
Videos turn the “impersonal” into something personal, making dating profiles feel less like a catalog and more like a meaningful introduction to someone relatable.
Text-based bios are often limited by word count, context, or lack of emotional engagement. Adding a short, well-produced video can transform how your profile is perceived.
A video captures your tone, body language, and enthusiasm in ways words cannot.
Profiles with videos are statistically more likely to receive responses. According to dating platform studies, users with video intros see up to 50% more matches.
Just by crafting a uniquely “yours” video, you already show you’re serious about making heartfelt connections. It’s not just about making and posting a quite commendable profile; you demonstrate how you invest an effort so someone special can resonate or relate.
What sets you apart? Whether it’s your passion for adventure, love for cooking, or quirky pet, share a slice of your life that highlights your authenticity. Be concise yet captivating, focusing on one or two key aspects that define you.
Perfection isn’t the goal – connection is. Smile, maintain eye contact, and speak naturally. Authenticity often trumps polished perfection, making you appear more approachable and sincere.
Don’t worry if you’re not a tech wizard. You can work with easily accessible tools, especially an AI video editor, so you can greatly simplify your video profile-making process. These platforms offer:
When choosing an AI video tool, opt for one with intuitive features and strong customer support to help bring your storytelling vision to life.
The modern dater craves connection and relatability, and video storytelling provides an edge:
A heartfelt video introduction lets viewers experience your energy and personality, sparking curiosity or empathy.
Seeing and hearing someone fosters trust. A video introduction helps people feel they already know you, even before the first chat.
Those who resonate with your story are likely to be interested and swipe right, which might just be the starting point for better-quality connections.
Today’s digital dating spaces continue to evolve remarkably, and profiles like yours are shifting from static presentations or still images to dynamic and more moving experiences. That’s why incorporating video and storytelling into your profile not only keeps it relevant but also makes sure they’re engaging and effective.
As more platforms embrace video-first features, integrating storytelling into profiles will likely become a standard practice that sets today’s trend. Those who adopt it now will be spearheading a charge in creating richer, more memorable online interactions.
Many dating apps today spell people only through images that could somehow evoke different meanings. Taking special effort, however, in crafting your dating profile, especially with digital storytelling in videos, you keep up with the trend – piercing through the hearts of users across the globe.
That’s why, by sharing an honest and personal story through your creative video introduction, you’re more likely to add that sprinkle of star quality to your profile, capturing someone’s interest-where all the magic starts.
" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1734081599) } [3]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(58) "How to Build a Lasting Relationship Beyond Ideal Proposals" ["link"]=> string(97) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/11/how-to-build-a-lasting-relationship-beyond-ideal-proposals/" ["comments"]=> string(105) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/11/how-to-build-a-lasting-relationship-beyond-ideal-proposals/#respond" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(13) "J. T. Ellison" } ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Wed, 11 Dec 2024 08:56:31 +0000" ["category"]=> string(132) "Relationship AdviceboundariescommunicationEngagementfightingGratitude and AcknowledgmentMaking Lasting MemoriesRelationship Dynamics" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=9197" ["description"]=> string(374) "A perfectly executed proposal can feel magical: it’s a moment you’ll both look back on as the beginning of your next chapter together. It makes perfect sense why, for many couples, it’s such a big deal – it’s a symbolic gesture that marks the transition from “just” a relationship to something greater. But it’s also […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(6254) "A perfectly executed proposal can feel magical: it’s a moment you’ll both look back on as the beginning of your next chapter together. It makes perfect sense why, for many couples, it’s such a big deal – it’s a symbolic gesture that marks the transition from “just” a relationship to something greater.
But it’s also important to remember that a proposal is only the opening act in the story of a lasting relationship. Yes, nailing the moment when you pop the question is important, but the real challenge starts the day after the “yes.” Building a healthy, strong relationship – or a marriage that stands the test of time – takes more than love and good intentions.
Whether you’re newly engaged, about to pop the question, or just committed to building a stronger foundation with your partner, understanding what it takes to cultivate a long-term connection is crucial. Mind you, this isn’t about perfection.
It’s about showing up, putting in the work, and finding ways to make your relationship one that both of you can rely on through every high and low.
Let’s start with the symbol of love and connection: the ring and why it’s important to pick the right one. After all, an engagement ring is more than just a piece of jewelry – it’s a symbol of the commitment you’re making.
So, when you browse engagement rings, take the time to find one that really resonates with both of your styles and values – and keep in mind that this is the ring you’ll both be looking at for the rest of your life.
After the thrill of the proposal, you’ll likely notice your relationship changing for the better, as you’ll both gain a deeper sense of security and safety with each other. Use this time to have meaningful conversations about your values, goals, and expectations.
Also discuss finances, career plans, how you’ll handle parenting if you plan on having kids, and what kind of lifestyle you envision.
Good, effective communication is essential for a healthy relationship. And no, this doesn’t just mean knowing when to say “I love you” or complimenting each other often (though those are nice touches). It’s about creating a space where you can both share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns without fear of judgment or dismissal.
Be clear and direct about your needs. If something bothers you, don’t let it simmer – address it early and constructively. At the same time, practice active listening: pay attention not just to what your partner says but also to the emotions behind their words.
Also, keep in mind that communication isn’t all verbal. The way you behave – your tone, body language, and willingness to be present – matters just as much.
Sharing your life doesn’t mean giving up your individuality. A healthy relationship thrives when both partners respect each other’s boundaries and privacy. This could mean honoring their need for alone time, supporting their hobbies, or giving them the freedom to maintain friendships outside the relationship.
Trust plays a huge role here. You don’t need to monitor every text or ask for constant updates about where they are: having confidence in your partner and their choices is how you reinforce mutual respect.
Disagreements are inevitable in every relationship, no matter how loving. How you handle them determines whether they strengthen or weaken your relationship. Instead of resorting to blame or shutting down, approach conflicts with the mindset of solving a shared problem.
Stick to “I” statements rather than “you” accusations (e.g., “I feel frustrated when…” rather than “You always…”). This redirects the focus to how you’re feeling rather than putting your partner on the defensive.
And if emotions are running high, take a pause. Cooling off allows you both to approach the issue more calmly. Remember, the goal isn’t to win – it’s to resolve an issue.
You don’t need grand gestures to keep the spark alive (though they don’t hurt once in a while). Indeed, small, thoughtful actions carry just as much weight. Plan a surprise date night, leave a note on their desk, or cook their favorite meal without being asked; in other words, keep things fresh.
At the same time, prioritize shared experiences. Travel together, take up a new hobby as a couple, or volunteer for a cause you both care about. These moments will build a bank of positive memories that will deepen your bond and provide a buffer during harder times (which are, again, inevitable).
Finally, let’s acknowledge the fact that while it can be easy to overlook the little things your partner does (especially as you settle into a rhythm, those little things matter. A simple “thank you” for taking out the trash or cooking dinner goes a long way in showing you value their effort.
While words matter, keep in mind that acknowledgment can take many forms, from a thoughtful gift to offering a massage after a tough day. The key is making sure your partner feels seen and appreciated.
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A perfectly executed proposal can feel magical: it’s a moment you’ll both look back on as the beginning of your next chapter together. It makes perfect sense why, for many couples, it’s such a big deal – it’s a symbolic gesture that marks the transition from “just” a relationship to something greater.
But it’s also important to remember that a proposal is only the opening act in the story of a lasting relationship. Yes, nailing the moment when you pop the question is important, but the real challenge starts the day after the “yes.” Building a healthy, strong relationship – or a marriage that stands the test of time – takes more than love and good intentions.
Whether you’re newly engaged, about to pop the question, or just committed to building a stronger foundation with your partner, understanding what it takes to cultivate a long-term connection is crucial. Mind you, this isn’t about perfection.
It’s about showing up, putting in the work, and finding ways to make your relationship one that both of you can rely on through every high and low.
Let’s start with the symbol of love and connection: the ring and why it’s important to pick the right one. After all, an engagement ring is more than just a piece of jewelry – it’s a symbol of the commitment you’re making.
So, when you browse engagement rings, take the time to find one that really resonates with both of your styles and values – and keep in mind that this is the ring you’ll both be looking at for the rest of your life.
After the thrill of the proposal, you’ll likely notice your relationship changing for the better, as you’ll both gain a deeper sense of security and safety with each other. Use this time to have meaningful conversations about your values, goals, and expectations.
Also discuss finances, career plans, how you’ll handle parenting if you plan on having kids, and what kind of lifestyle you envision.
Good, effective communication is essential for a healthy relationship. And no, this doesn’t just mean knowing when to say “I love you” or complimenting each other often (though those are nice touches). It’s about creating a space where you can both share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns without fear of judgment or dismissal.
Be clear and direct about your needs. If something bothers you, don’t let it simmer – address it early and constructively. At the same time, practice active listening: pay attention not just to what your partner says but also to the emotions behind their words.
Also, keep in mind that communication isn’t all verbal. The way you behave – your tone, body language, and willingness to be present – matters just as much.
Sharing your life doesn’t mean giving up your individuality. A healthy relationship thrives when both partners respect each other’s boundaries and privacy. This could mean honoring their need for alone time, supporting their hobbies, or giving them the freedom to maintain friendships outside the relationship.
Trust plays a huge role here. You don’t need to monitor every text or ask for constant updates about where they are: having confidence in your partner and their choices is how you reinforce mutual respect.
Disagreements are inevitable in every relationship, no matter how loving. How you handle them determines whether they strengthen or weaken your relationship. Instead of resorting to blame or shutting down, approach conflicts with the mindset of solving a shared problem.
Stick to “I” statements rather than “you” accusations (e.g., “I feel frustrated when…” rather than “You always…”). This redirects the focus to how you’re feeling rather than putting your partner on the defensive.
And if emotions are running high, take a pause. Cooling off allows you both to approach the issue more calmly. Remember, the goal isn’t to win – it’s to resolve an issue.
You don’t need grand gestures to keep the spark alive (though they don’t hurt once in a while). Indeed, small, thoughtful actions carry just as much weight. Plan a surprise date night, leave a note on their desk, or cook their favorite meal without being asked; in other words, keep things fresh.
At the same time, prioritize shared experiences. Travel together, take up a new hobby as a couple, or volunteer for a cause you both care about. These moments will build a bank of positive memories that will deepen your bond and provide a buffer during harder times (which are, again, inevitable).
Finally, let’s acknowledge the fact that while it can be easy to overlook the little things your partner does (especially as you settle into a rhythm, those little things matter. A simple “thank you” for taking out the trash or cooking dinner goes a long way in showing you value their effort.
While words matter, keep in mind that acknowledgment can take many forms, from a thoughtful gift to offering a massage after a tough day. The key is making sure your partner feels seen and appreciated.
" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1733907391) } [4]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(66) "Should Professional Guidance Be Part of Your Relationship Journey?" ["link"]=> string(104) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/10/should-professional-guidance-be-part-of-your-relationship-journey/" ["comments"]=> string(112) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/10/should-professional-guidance-be-part-of-your-relationship-journey/#respond" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(10) "Sarah Hill" } ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Tue, 10 Dec 2024 09:16:05 +0000" ["category"]=> string(13) "Dating Advice" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=9194" ["description"]=> string(313) "You’d think that relationships would get easier once you find someone who loves you as much as you love them. Think about it: You have the same taste in music, you enjoy waking up to them on a Sunday morning, they know your favorite restaurant, and you can’t stop laughing at their corny jokes. What […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(5777) "
You’d think that relationships would get easier once you find someone who loves you as much as you love them. Think about it:
You have the same taste in music, you enjoy waking up to them on a Sunday morning, they know your favorite restaurant, and you can’t stop laughing at their corny jokes. What more could you ask for?
As you know, even when someone is your favorite person, there are usually some things our partners do that we struggle to get past. That’s the nature of relationships: challenges are bound to pop up whether you’ve just started dating or have been together for years.
Relationships aren’t always easy, and sometimes, we need an expert to help us navigate the complexities of our emotions, behaviors, and communication. Seeking professional help can help build a healthier, more fulfilling partnership, and here is why.
Every couple has recurring issues and arguments about the same topics, unmet expectations, or misunderstandings that feel impossible to untangle. Professional guidance helps illuminate the deeper causes behind these patterns, which often stem from unspoken needs or unresolved emotional wounds.
An expert can help you recognize how past experiences, personality differences, or unconscious habits might fuel tension in your relationships. With this clarity, you can start addressing the root causes rather than dwelling on the surface conflicts; this can lead to more meaningful resolutions.
Many relationship challenges originate from unresolved personal struggles rooted in past experiences. Professionals often use shadow work to help individuals uncover and address these hidden influences.
The shadow work process involves exploring suppressed emotions or patterns shaped by early experiences, like how growing up with emotionally unavailable parents might lead to behaviors such as distancing yourself from a partner to avoid feelings of rejection.
Through understanding shadow work, couples can gain insight into these deep-seated fears, create room for individual healing, and pave the way for a stronger, more connected relationship.
Professional guidance doesn’t just teach you to ‘talk it out.’ It equips you with scientifically proven tools to communicate effectively. These strategies often include structured methods like nonviolent communication (NVC) or reflective listening.
For instance, instead of saying, ‘You never listen to me,’ you might learn to express the underlying emotions as, ‘I feel unheard when you’re on your phone during our conversations, and I’d love it if we could have more focused time together.’ Such shifts in dialogue foster empathy, reduce misunderstandings and create a stronger emotional connection.
Power imbalances or cultural misunderstandings can create subtle yet significant tensions in a relationship. Professionals help couples unpack these dynamics to ensure partners feel valued and heard.
For example, a partner from a collectivist culture might prioritize family obligations, while their partner from an individualist culture might focus on personal goals. Rather than seeing these differences as obstacles, professional guidance can help couples turn them into strengths by fostering mutual respect and compromise, thus enhancing resilience within the partnership.
Trust is the foundation of any relationship, but once broken, it’s one of the hardest things to repair. Whether the cause is infidelity, financial secrecy, or even unintentional emotional neglect, rebuilding trust requires a deliberate and structured approach.
A professional can guide couples through this delicate process by facilitating honest conversations, setting realistic expectations, and helping partners establish accountability. Over time, this work can restore trust and a sense of safety and emotional intimacy that makes relationships thrive.
Life is full of change, and some transitions – such as moving in together, starting a family, or dealing with a major loss – can strain even the strongest relationships. Professional guidance can provide much-needed support during these significant moments.
A counselor or relationship expert can help couples navigate the emotions and stress triggered by change by providing tools couples can use to adapt together. This support allows couples to stay aligned by ensuring that these transitions don’t create long-term rifts but strengthen the partnership.
Yes, professional guidance should be part of your relationship journey; you may not always need help, but when things feel stuck or difficult to work through on your own, it can make a big difference. Professional guidance provides the tools and perspectives needed to improve communication, address personal issues, and strengthen your relationship
" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(109) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/10/should-professional-guidance-be-part-of-your-relationship-journey/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(313) "You’d think that relationships would get easier once you find someone who loves you as much as you love them. Think about it: You have the same taste in music, you enjoy waking up to them on a Sunday morning, they know your favorite restaurant, and you can’t stop laughing at their corny jokes. What […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(5777) "You’d think that relationships would get easier once you find someone who loves you as much as you love them. Think about it:
You have the same taste in music, you enjoy waking up to them on a Sunday morning, they know your favorite restaurant, and you can’t stop laughing at their corny jokes. What more could you ask for?
As you know, even when someone is your favorite person, there are usually some things our partners do that we struggle to get past. That’s the nature of relationships: challenges are bound to pop up whether you’ve just started dating or have been together for years.
Relationships aren’t always easy, and sometimes, we need an expert to help us navigate the complexities of our emotions, behaviors, and communication. Seeking professional help can help build a healthier, more fulfilling partnership, and here is why.
Every couple has recurring issues and arguments about the same topics, unmet expectations, or misunderstandings that feel impossible to untangle. Professional guidance helps illuminate the deeper causes behind these patterns, which often stem from unspoken needs or unresolved emotional wounds.
An expert can help you recognize how past experiences, personality differences, or unconscious habits might fuel tension in your relationships. With this clarity, you can start addressing the root causes rather than dwelling on the surface conflicts; this can lead to more meaningful resolutions.
Many relationship challenges originate from unresolved personal struggles rooted in past experiences. Professionals often use shadow work to help individuals uncover and address these hidden influences.
The shadow work process involves exploring suppressed emotions or patterns shaped by early experiences, like how growing up with emotionally unavailable parents might lead to behaviors such as distancing yourself from a partner to avoid feelings of rejection.
Through understanding shadow work, couples can gain insight into these deep-seated fears, create room for individual healing, and pave the way for a stronger, more connected relationship.
Professional guidance doesn’t just teach you to ‘talk it out.’ It equips you with scientifically proven tools to communicate effectively. These strategies often include structured methods like nonviolent communication (NVC) or reflective listening.
For instance, instead of saying, ‘You never listen to me,’ you might learn to express the underlying emotions as, ‘I feel unheard when you’re on your phone during our conversations, and I’d love it if we could have more focused time together.’ Such shifts in dialogue foster empathy, reduce misunderstandings and create a stronger emotional connection.
Power imbalances or cultural misunderstandings can create subtle yet significant tensions in a relationship. Professionals help couples unpack these dynamics to ensure partners feel valued and heard.
For example, a partner from a collectivist culture might prioritize family obligations, while their partner from an individualist culture might focus on personal goals. Rather than seeing these differences as obstacles, professional guidance can help couples turn them into strengths by fostering mutual respect and compromise, thus enhancing resilience within the partnership.
Trust is the foundation of any relationship, but once broken, it’s one of the hardest things to repair. Whether the cause is infidelity, financial secrecy, or even unintentional emotional neglect, rebuilding trust requires a deliberate and structured approach.
A professional can guide couples through this delicate process by facilitating honest conversations, setting realistic expectations, and helping partners establish accountability. Over time, this work can restore trust and a sense of safety and emotional intimacy that makes relationships thrive.
Life is full of change, and some transitions – such as moving in together, starting a family, or dealing with a major loss – can strain even the strongest relationships. Professional guidance can provide much-needed support during these significant moments.
A counselor or relationship expert can help couples navigate the emotions and stress triggered by change by providing tools couples can use to adapt together. This support allows couples to stay aligned by ensuring that these transitions don’t create long-term rifts but strengthen the partnership.
Yes, professional guidance should be part of your relationship journey; you may not always need help, but when things feel stuck or difficult to work through on your own, it can make a big difference. Professional guidance provides the tools and perspectives needed to improve communication, address personal issues, and strengthen your relationship
" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1733822165) } [5]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(95) "Celebrating Diversity in Love: How Ukrainian Brides and Black Singles Build Lasting Connections" ["link"]=> string(133) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/04/celebrating-diversity-in-love-how-ukrainian-brides-and-black-singles-build-lasting-connections/" ["comments"]=> string(141) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/04/celebrating-diversity-in-love-how-ukrainian-brides-and-black-singles-build-lasting-connections/#respond" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(10) "Andrew Tch" } ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Wed, 04 Dec 2024 14:59:33 +0000" ["category"]=> string(93) "Dating AdviceBlack SinglesCross-Cultural RelationshipsUkrainian brides over 50Ukrainian women" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=9189" ["description"]=> string(393) "True love knows no geographical boundaries or race and culture restrictions. Moreover, diversity in relationships is more accepted and celebrated than ever before. And Black singles and Ukrainian brides over 50 build connections, defy traditional dating norms and embrace the power of cross-cultural love. These relationships are about finding common ground as well as appreciating […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(11308) "True love knows no geographical boundaries or race and culture restrictions. Moreover, diversity in relationships is more accepted and celebrated than ever before. And Black singles and Ukrainian brides over 50 build connections, defy traditional dating norms and embrace the power of cross-cultural love.
These relationships are about finding common ground as well as appreciating and celebrating each other’s unique backgrounds. In an increasingly interconnected world, love between people from different cultures brings an added richness to relationships that transcend borders.
As online dating platforms have made it easier to connect with people from all corners of the globe, many mature people, including Ukrainian women and Black singles, find love in unexpected places. The digital age has opened the doors to new opportunities and allows people from diverse backgrounds to meet and build relationships that might not have been possible before.
These relationships are built on the foundation of mutual respect and understanding, rather than surface-level attraction. Ukrainian brides over 50 are typically seeking deep, meaningful connections, and Black singles are often looking for the same. This shared desire for a committed relationship sets the stage for a partnership that is based on more than just initial chemistry.
Both Ukrainian women over 50 and Black singles often come from rich cultural backgrounds. This gives them a foundation for understanding each other’s perspectives and life journeys.
These relationships are grounded in a deep sense of respect for each other’s cultures, histories, and traditions, which creates a solid foundation for mutual understanding and growth. This, in turn, fosters an environment where both partners can learn from one another and build a lasting, meaningful connection.
Both Ukrainian brides over 50 and Black singles tend to prioritize stability, family, and long-lasting connections. This makes them well-suited for building serious relationships.
For Ukrainian women over 50, a relationship with someone from a different cultural background, such as a Black man, can offer new perspectives on life, love, and family. In turn, Black singles who date Ukrainian women can gain a deeper understanding of the rich traditions and values that Ukrainian culture holds dear.
Cultural differences may present challenges, but they also bring an enriching experience to the relationship. From trying new foods to celebrating different holidays, couples in cross-cultural relationships often find joy in sharing their unique customs. These experiences not only help them grow closer but also broaden their worldviews.
For Ukrainian brides and Black singles, communication may involve learning to navigate different languages, traditions, and expectations. Both partners need to communicate openly about their needs, desires, and concerns. To build connections, couples need to embrace the following communication practices:
Technology has played a vital role in fostering relationships between Ukrainian brides over 50 and Black singles. Online dating platforms have become a powerful tool for bringing people together. They allow them to meet, chat, and get to know one another online. Video calls, messaging apps, and social media enable couples to stay connected despite geographical distances and let them nurture their relationships over time.
In addition to basic communication tools, these platforms also use advanced algorithms to match individuals based on compatibility, values, and long-term relationship goals. This helps couples find potential partners who align with their desires, which makes it easier to build deeper emotional connections from the start.
Black singles and Ukrainian brides over 50 may sometimes encounter societal prejudices or misconceptions about their relationship. However, by focusing on building trust and understanding, these couples can prove that love transcends stereotypes. Couples can take the following steps:
For Ukrainian women over 50 and Black singles, relationships often provide a sense of adventure, personal growth, and a deeper understanding of the world. Here are a few benefits:
Celebrating diversity in love means embracing both partners’ unique cultural backgrounds while finding common ground. Ukrainian brides over 50 and Black singles often celebrate their love by blending traditions from both cultures into their daily lives, which creates a relationship that honors both of their heritages.
One way to celebrate this cultural diversity is through cultural exchange, where each partner takes the time to teach the other about their respective customs, traditions, and family values. Additionally, many couples enjoy new traditions that blend elements from both cultures, by combining favorite foods or celebrating multiple holidays together.
Travel and exploration also play a significant role. Couples often visit each other’s homelands to experience firsthand the beauty, history, and richness of their partner’s culture, which deepens their connection.
The connection between Ukrainian brides over 50 and Black singles is a celebration of love that transcends cultural and racial boundaries. These relationships are built on mutual respect, understanding, and a shared desire for deep emotional connections. Embracing each other’s cultures, communicating openly, and overcoming challenges together can help Ukrainian women over 50 and Black singles build relationships that stand the test of time
" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(138) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/12/04/celebrating-diversity-in-love-how-ukrainian-brides-and-black-singles-build-lasting-connections/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(393) "True love knows no geographical boundaries or race and culture restrictions. Moreover, diversity in relationships is more accepted and celebrated than ever before. And Black singles and Ukrainian brides over 50 build connections, defy traditional dating norms and embrace the power of cross-cultural love. These relationships are about finding common ground as well as appreciating […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(11308) "True love knows no geographical boundaries or race and culture restrictions. Moreover, diversity in relationships is more accepted and celebrated than ever before. And Black singles and Ukrainian brides over 50 build connections, defy traditional dating norms and embrace the power of cross-cultural love.
These relationships are about finding common ground as well as appreciating and celebrating each other’s unique backgrounds. In an increasingly interconnected world, love between people from different cultures brings an added richness to relationships that transcend borders.
As online dating platforms have made it easier to connect with people from all corners of the globe, many mature people, including Ukrainian women and Black singles, find love in unexpected places. The digital age has opened the doors to new opportunities and allows people from diverse backgrounds to meet and build relationships that might not have been possible before.
These relationships are built on the foundation of mutual respect and understanding, rather than surface-level attraction. Ukrainian brides over 50 are typically seeking deep, meaningful connections, and Black singles are often looking for the same. This shared desire for a committed relationship sets the stage for a partnership that is based on more than just initial chemistry.
Both Ukrainian women over 50 and Black singles often come from rich cultural backgrounds. This gives them a foundation for understanding each other’s perspectives and life journeys.
These relationships are grounded in a deep sense of respect for each other’s cultures, histories, and traditions, which creates a solid foundation for mutual understanding and growth. This, in turn, fosters an environment where both partners can learn from one another and build a lasting, meaningful connection.
Both Ukrainian brides over 50 and Black singles tend to prioritize stability, family, and long-lasting connections. This makes them well-suited for building serious relationships.
For Ukrainian women over 50, a relationship with someone from a different cultural background, such as a Black man, can offer new perspectives on life, love, and family. In turn, Black singles who date Ukrainian women can gain a deeper understanding of the rich traditions and values that Ukrainian culture holds dear.
Cultural differences may present challenges, but they also bring an enriching experience to the relationship. From trying new foods to celebrating different holidays, couples in cross-cultural relationships often find joy in sharing their unique customs. These experiences not only help them grow closer but also broaden their worldviews.
For Ukrainian brides and Black singles, communication may involve learning to navigate different languages, traditions, and expectations. Both partners need to communicate openly about their needs, desires, and concerns. To build connections, couples need to embrace the following communication practices:
Technology has played a vital role in fostering relationships between Ukrainian brides over 50 and Black singles. Online dating platforms have become a powerful tool for bringing people together. They allow them to meet, chat, and get to know one another online. Video calls, messaging apps, and social media enable couples to stay connected despite geographical distances and let them nurture their relationships over time.
In addition to basic communication tools, these platforms also use advanced algorithms to match individuals based on compatibility, values, and long-term relationship goals. This helps couples find potential partners who align with their desires, which makes it easier to build deeper emotional connections from the start.
Black singles and Ukrainian brides over 50 may sometimes encounter societal prejudices or misconceptions about their relationship. However, by focusing on building trust and understanding, these couples can prove that love transcends stereotypes. Couples can take the following steps:
For Ukrainian women over 50 and Black singles, relationships often provide a sense of adventure, personal growth, and a deeper understanding of the world. Here are a few benefits:
Celebrating diversity in love means embracing both partners’ unique cultural backgrounds while finding common ground. Ukrainian brides over 50 and Black singles often celebrate their love by blending traditions from both cultures into their daily lives, which creates a relationship that honors both of their heritages.
One way to celebrate this cultural diversity is through cultural exchange, where each partner takes the time to teach the other about their respective customs, traditions, and family values. Additionally, many couples enjoy new traditions that blend elements from both cultures, by combining favorite foods or celebrating multiple holidays together.
Travel and exploration also play a significant role. Couples often visit each other’s homelands to experience firsthand the beauty, history, and richness of their partner’s culture, which deepens their connection.
The connection between Ukrainian brides over 50 and Black singles is a celebration of love that transcends cultural and racial boundaries. These relationships are built on mutual respect, understanding, and a shared desire for deep emotional connections. Embracing each other’s cultures, communicating openly, and overcoming challenges together can help Ukrainian women over 50 and Black singles build relationships that stand the test of time
" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1733324373) } [6]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(59) "Keeping Love Alive and Balanced: A Man’s Guide to Balance" ["link"]=> string(94) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/11/16/keeping-love-alive-and-balanced-a-mans-guide-to-balance/" ["comments"]=> string(102) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/11/16/keeping-love-alive-and-balanced-a-mans-guide-to-balance/#respond" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(9) "Alex Wise" } ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Sat, 16 Nov 2024 10:05:58 +0000" ["category"]=> string(40) "Dating AdviceguideKeeping Love Alivelove" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=9184" ["description"]=> string(264) "Women can only love men in two ways – they can love men as hoes, or they can love men as mothers. Hoes love the sex; mothers love taking care of the man. A man needs a woman to give him both kinds of love in order for him to love her fully and have […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(5679) "Women can only love men in two ways – they can love men as hoes, or they can love men as mothers. Hoes love the sex; mothers love taking care of the man. A man needs a woman to give him both kinds of love in order for him to love her fully and have the energy to fight the temptations that come with being a man. Sadly, the difficult part is no woman can be a ho and a mother at the same exact time, equally – some external force is needed to make that happen.
That external force is GAME. It is game that drives and directs all relationships.
Game is that thing that men develop, which helps them persuade a woman to do something, that she doesn’t initially feel like doing, If a woman doesn’t initially feel like going on a date, your game is what makes her feel that she should give you an opportunity to get a date. The more you exercise your game, the better you become at dealing with various forms of women’s resistance. In the long run the whole purpose of building your game with multiple women, is ultimately, to have a monogamous relationship because the game needed to keep one woman in a LTR far outweighs the amount of game needed to keep 5 women in the stable at once, since the LTR woman eventually will get used to your game, and you’ll have to constantly upgrade it, to keep her interested in you.
When a woman first falls in love with a guy, she tries very hard to be a ho and a mother at the same time. Usually though, you’ll find what side of the fence she’s naturally on very quickly. The motherly one will not be in a rush to have sex, the ho will. The ho will not be in a rush to cook for you, the motherly one will bring you some samples to eat, very early on.
The motherly woman is very kind, loving and caring. She wants to wash your clothes, she wants to massage your back when it’s aching, cook your food etc. And that’s a beautiful thing; it makes you feel good to have that kind of love in your life. However, there’s a flipside. – a motherly loving woman, just like your mother will always feel that YOU NEED HER. She feels that without her, you wouldn’t be able to stand on your own. Like all mothers, she will always view you as her baby. In other words, she loves you, but she doesn’t respect you. Hard to see a woman viewing you like that, and still getting wet for you, don’t you think?
The hoish woman is the one who gets d*ckmatized. She loves f&^king. She is always down to bring or accept something new into the bedroom. Her love is based on her desire to be physically intimate and to submit to her man’s physical control and direction. However, the bad thing about all hoes, is that they’re hoes, and outside of sex, they really don’t want to do anything else for you. They don’t want to wash your clothes, they don’t want to massage your back, they don’t want to cook for you etc. They love f*cking but they have no desire to be “pleasant” or relieve you of the stress that comes with being a man who gets no credit for the work he provides to his family or society, each and every day.
Now here’s the question that ought to be asked if you’re not already asking it: why can’t a woman naturally be 50% ho and 50% mother? The answer to that question is very simple – She doesn’t know how to! Most women don’t start out like men do having to learn how to persuade women to give them something that they don’t initially want to. The vast majority of women only start working on the art of persuasion when they have a man that they feel they’re in love with.
Since most men don’t utilize scenarios where a woman has to figure out how to persuade a man to give her something (outside of using some variation of sex, which she ought to give him anyhow as part of keeping the relationship alive and passionate) women grow to not appreciate the things their men give them, and become more and more entitled. And when they meet men who don’t give them things that they think they “deserve” based on the things men gave them in the past for free, they begin to view the other men as stuck-up, over-confident, bitter etc when in reality, it’s the fault of the men of the past, who never helped the women learn how to persuade to get their way.
The downfall of a relationship always begins when a man gets comfortable. When a man gets comfortable, he no longer feels the need or the urge to persuade which makes a woman feel like she is being taken for granted. As he gets comfortable, the woman loses her desire to persuade, and resolves deeper and deeper to the love that she is accustomed to. Before long, the negatives of the love that she naturally possesses begin to seep into a relationship and cause problems. The mother begins to nag, demands that you do chores, complains that she does all the work and you take her for granted. The ho begins to complain that you’re out too much, and she’s not getting f*&ked like she used to. She wants to go out to eat all the time, and when you have to eat inside she finds it difficult to even prepare a plate of spaghetti and meatballs. When things fall apart, you’ll both yell and scream. You’ll blame each other, but at the end…
It’s always your fault fellas… if you’re not using your game to direct your relationship; you’re allowing your woman’s innate nature to drag your relationship into purgatory.
Agree? Disagree? What do you think?
" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(99) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/11/16/keeping-love-alive-and-balanced-a-mans-guide-to-balance/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(264) "Women can only love men in two ways – they can love men as hoes, or they can love men as mothers. Hoes love the sex; mothers love taking care of the man. A man needs a woman to give him both kinds of love in order for him to love her fully and have […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(5679) "Women can only love men in two ways – they can love men as hoes, or they can love men as mothers. Hoes love the sex; mothers love taking care of the man. A man needs a woman to give him both kinds of love in order for him to love her fully and have the energy to fight the temptations that come with being a man. Sadly, the difficult part is no woman can be a ho and a mother at the same exact time, equally – some external force is needed to make that happen.
That external force is GAME. It is game that drives and directs all relationships.
Game is that thing that men develop, which helps them persuade a woman to do something, that she doesn’t initially feel like doing, If a woman doesn’t initially feel like going on a date, your game is what makes her feel that she should give you an opportunity to get a date. The more you exercise your game, the better you become at dealing with various forms of women’s resistance. In the long run the whole purpose of building your game with multiple women, is ultimately, to have a monogamous relationship because the game needed to keep one woman in a LTR far outweighs the amount of game needed to keep 5 women in the stable at once, since the LTR woman eventually will get used to your game, and you’ll have to constantly upgrade it, to keep her interested in you.
When a woman first falls in love with a guy, she tries very hard to be a ho and a mother at the same time. Usually though, you’ll find what side of the fence she’s naturally on very quickly. The motherly one will not be in a rush to have sex, the ho will. The ho will not be in a rush to cook for you, the motherly one will bring you some samples to eat, very early on.
The motherly woman is very kind, loving and caring. She wants to wash your clothes, she wants to massage your back when it’s aching, cook your food etc. And that’s a beautiful thing; it makes you feel good to have that kind of love in your life. However, there’s a flipside. – a motherly loving woman, just like your mother will always feel that YOU NEED HER. She feels that without her, you wouldn’t be able to stand on your own. Like all mothers, she will always view you as her baby. In other words, she loves you, but she doesn’t respect you. Hard to see a woman viewing you like that, and still getting wet for you, don’t you think?
The hoish woman is the one who gets d*ckmatized. She loves f&^king. She is always down to bring or accept something new into the bedroom. Her love is based on her desire to be physically intimate and to submit to her man’s physical control and direction. However, the bad thing about all hoes, is that they’re hoes, and outside of sex, they really don’t want to do anything else for you. They don’t want to wash your clothes, they don’t want to massage your back, they don’t want to cook for you etc. They love f*cking but they have no desire to be “pleasant” or relieve you of the stress that comes with being a man who gets no credit for the work he provides to his family or society, each and every day.
Now here’s the question that ought to be asked if you’re not already asking it: why can’t a woman naturally be 50% ho and 50% mother? The answer to that question is very simple – She doesn’t know how to! Most women don’t start out like men do having to learn how to persuade women to give them something that they don’t initially want to. The vast majority of women only start working on the art of persuasion when they have a man that they feel they’re in love with.
Since most men don’t utilize scenarios where a woman has to figure out how to persuade a man to give her something (outside of using some variation of sex, which she ought to give him anyhow as part of keeping the relationship alive and passionate) women grow to not appreciate the things their men give them, and become more and more entitled. And when they meet men who don’t give them things that they think they “deserve” based on the things men gave them in the past for free, they begin to view the other men as stuck-up, over-confident, bitter etc when in reality, it’s the fault of the men of the past, who never helped the women learn how to persuade to get their way.
The downfall of a relationship always begins when a man gets comfortable. When a man gets comfortable, he no longer feels the need or the urge to persuade which makes a woman feel like she is being taken for granted. As he gets comfortable, the woman loses her desire to persuade, and resolves deeper and deeper to the love that she is accustomed to. Before long, the negatives of the love that she naturally possesses begin to seep into a relationship and cause problems. The mother begins to nag, demands that you do chores, complains that she does all the work and you take her for granted. The ho begins to complain that you’re out too much, and she’s not getting f*&ked like she used to. She wants to go out to eat all the time, and when you have to eat inside she finds it difficult to even prepare a plate of spaghetti and meatballs. When things fall apart, you’ll both yell and scream. You’ll blame each other, but at the end…
It’s always your fault fellas… if you’re not using your game to direct your relationship; you’re allowing your woman’s innate nature to drag your relationship into purgatory.
Agree? Disagree? What do you think?
" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1731751558) } [7]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(60) "Understanding Insurance Coverage: A Guide for Dating Couples" ["link"]=> string(98) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/11/08/understanding-insurance-coverage-a-guide-for-dating-couples/" ["comments"]=> string(106) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/11/08/understanding-insurance-coverage-a-guide-for-dating-couples/#respond" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(13) "J. T. Ellison" } ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Fri, 08 Nov 2024 15:39:49 +0000" ["category"]=> string(60) "InterestingInsurance CoverageInsurance PlansMedical Expenses" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=9180" ["description"]=> string(313) "Dating someone special is new and exciting and makes you feel like you’re in the clouds. But, if you want to get steady and build a life with this person, you must be brave enough to have tricky conversations, like the one about finances. You may feel uncomfortable bringing the topic up, but trust us […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(5916) "Dating someone special is new and exciting and makes you feel like you’re in the clouds. But, if you want to get steady and build a life with this person, you must be brave enough to have tricky conversations, like the one about finances.
You may feel uncomfortable bringing the topic up, but trust us – the sooner you start openly talking about money, the better. Plus, you can start with a lighter topic, like medical insurance coverage.
When done right, the money talk can strengthen your partnership and provide peace of mind as you build a life together. In today’s guide, we’ll help you navigate this discussion by exploring how you can understand insurance coverage as a couple.
Once you both agree to start the insurance discussion, it’s time to show your cards. By this, we mean explaining each other’s current plans. This involves discussing what kind of coverage you already have and identifying gaps that might affect your shared future.
Discuss each other’s health needs and group them under common (regular checkups, birth control, and so on) and special. Under special, include individual health needs, such as gluten insensitivity or HIV medication. Once you have these figured out, it’s time to look for a plan that covers all these needs.
Begin by reviewing the basics, such as policy types, premiums, deductibles, and out-of-pocket expenses.
Let’s take the price of PrEP pills as an example. If one of you is at risk, this is a life-saving medication, but the cost can be quite high without insurance. Luckily, according to Freddie’s guide, PrEP is free with most health insurance plans.
The same is true for birth control. Thanks to regulations under the Affordable Care Act (ACA), most employer-sponsored and individual health plans provide coverage for FDA-approved contraceptive methods without charging a copayment or coinsurance when provided by an in-network provider. This includes pills, patches, implants, and more.
So, explore different plans together while considering your unique health needs and financial situations.
Next comes an open chat about budgeting for these costs together. Consider creating a spreadsheet or using budgeting apps designed for couples to track expenses easily.
One of the best ways to build a happy married life is to have a healthy relationship with money. This also includes sharing medical expenses and supporting each other’s decisions.
Consider setting up a joint health savings account (HSA) or flexible spending account (FSA) if you’re eligible – these can offer tax advantages while helping you save specifically for medical costs. It’s like having a piggy bank dedicated to your healthcare needs.
Another strategy is to create an expense tracking system that both of you maintain regularly. Whether it’s a shared spreadsheet or an app designed for couples’ finances, staying on top of payments and reimbursements ensures nothing slips through the cracks.
Evaluate insurance plans annually during open enrollment periods. Comparing employer-sponsored options might reveal potential cost-saving opportunities when adding each other as dependents.
Finally, consider pooling resources in ways that best align with your financial goals and responsibilities. Some couples choose to split everything 50/50; others proportionally divide based on income levels or specific coverage benefits they need more urgently, whatever suits your dynamic.
Ultimately, maintaining open lines of communication about these choices helps solidify trust while navigating complex healthcare landscapes together.
Everyone has misconceptions, but when it comes to money and sharing expenses for something as important as health, you can’t let them deter you from making the right decisions.
So here are some topics to keep in mind about joint coverage:
Don’t be afraid to have the money talk and everything it implies! When you approach financial talks with confidence, you make sure you’re both on the same page when it comes to life goals. These conversations strengthen your partnership, paving the way for a secure, harmonious journey.
" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(103) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/11/08/understanding-insurance-coverage-a-guide-for-dating-couples/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(313) "Dating someone special is new and exciting and makes you feel like you’re in the clouds. But, if you want to get steady and build a life with this person, you must be brave enough to have tricky conversations, like the one about finances. You may feel uncomfortable bringing the topic up, but trust us […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(5916) "Dating someone special is new and exciting and makes you feel like you’re in the clouds. But, if you want to get steady and build a life with this person, you must be brave enough to have tricky conversations, like the one about finances.
You may feel uncomfortable bringing the topic up, but trust us – the sooner you start openly talking about money, the better. Plus, you can start with a lighter topic, like medical insurance coverage.
When done right, the money talk can strengthen your partnership and provide peace of mind as you build a life together. In today’s guide, we’ll help you navigate this discussion by exploring how you can understand insurance coverage as a couple.
Once you both agree to start the insurance discussion, it’s time to show your cards. By this, we mean explaining each other’s current plans. This involves discussing what kind of coverage you already have and identifying gaps that might affect your shared future.
Discuss each other’s health needs and group them under common (regular checkups, birth control, and so on) and special. Under special, include individual health needs, such as gluten insensitivity or HIV medication. Once you have these figured out, it’s time to look for a plan that covers all these needs.
Begin by reviewing the basics, such as policy types, premiums, deductibles, and out-of-pocket expenses.
Let’s take the price of PrEP pills as an example. If one of you is at risk, this is a life-saving medication, but the cost can be quite high without insurance. Luckily, according to Freddie’s guide, PrEP is free with most health insurance plans.
The same is true for birth control. Thanks to regulations under the Affordable Care Act (ACA), most employer-sponsored and individual health plans provide coverage for FDA-approved contraceptive methods without charging a copayment or coinsurance when provided by an in-network provider. This includes pills, patches, implants, and more.
So, explore different plans together while considering your unique health needs and financial situations.
Next comes an open chat about budgeting for these costs together. Consider creating a spreadsheet or using budgeting apps designed for couples to track expenses easily.
One of the best ways to build a happy married life is to have a healthy relationship with money. This also includes sharing medical expenses and supporting each other’s decisions.
Consider setting up a joint health savings account (HSA) or flexible spending account (FSA) if you’re eligible – these can offer tax advantages while helping you save specifically for medical costs. It’s like having a piggy bank dedicated to your healthcare needs.
Another strategy is to create an expense tracking system that both of you maintain regularly. Whether it’s a shared spreadsheet or an app designed for couples’ finances, staying on top of payments and reimbursements ensures nothing slips through the cracks.
Evaluate insurance plans annually during open enrollment periods. Comparing employer-sponsored options might reveal potential cost-saving opportunities when adding each other as dependents.
Finally, consider pooling resources in ways that best align with your financial goals and responsibilities. Some couples choose to split everything 50/50; others proportionally divide based on income levels or specific coverage benefits they need more urgently, whatever suits your dynamic.
Ultimately, maintaining open lines of communication about these choices helps solidify trust while navigating complex healthcare landscapes together.
Everyone has misconceptions, but when it comes to money and sharing expenses for something as important as health, you can’t let them deter you from making the right decisions.
So here are some topics to keep in mind about joint coverage:
Don’t be afraid to have the money talk and everything it implies! When you approach financial talks with confidence, you make sure you’re both on the same page when it comes to life goals. These conversations strengthen your partnership, paving the way for a secure, harmonious journey.
" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1731080389) } [8]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(72) "How to Find a Trustworthy Private Investigator for Relationship Concerns" ["link"]=> string(111) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/11/07/how-to-find-a-trustworthy-private-investigator-for-relationship-concerns/" ["comments"]=> string(119) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/11/07/how-to-find-a-trustworthy-private-investigator-for-relationship-concerns/#respond" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(7) "Diana D" } ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Thu, 07 Nov 2024 14:56:22 +0000" ["category"]=> string(119) "Divorce And BreakupsInterestingcheatingInvestigationInvestigatorPrivate InvestigatorSurveillanceSurveillance Techniques" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=9176" ["description"]=> string(326) "Have you ever suspected in a relationship that little something is wrong but failed to figure out how to get the answers? Everyone knows that relationships can be difficult, and at times, you may want to uncover more about what exactly is going on. If you’re uncertain, there is only one professional who can offer […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(8782) "Have you ever suspected in a relationship that little something is wrong but failed to figure out how to get the answers? Everyone knows that relationships can be difficult, and at times, you may want to uncover more about what exactly is going on. If you’re uncertain, there is only one professional who can offer the proof – private investigators.
However, when it comes to relationship issues it can be very hard to find a reliable private investigator. You want someone experienced, an expert who is real and competent and whose work is discrete but effective. It becomes necessary to identify and select a qualified investigator who will help people clear their relationship status.
Matters of person-to-person relationship investigations should therefore be an affair of huge legal and reputation and courtesy for the probabilities. Hiring a private investigator is a step that means a serious decision to be made after a careful comparison of your current circumstances and goals.
The first step carried out in an investigation incorporates the initial case assessment which reveals the level of investigation and its feasibility, the initial consultations include a simple analysis wherein professional investigators talk about some aspects of the case and how it can be undertaken bearing in mind the legal possibilities and individual privacy respectively.
If you’re living in Las Vegas, hiring a private investigator can provide you with essential facts and help you make an informed decision about your relationship. A reputable Las Vegas private investigator will properly describe any laws applicable to your case, techniques for gathering evidence, and any possible legal consequences.
It is vital how one arranges this trust before hiring a private investigator. A reliable investigator would always possess relevant academic certifications that show qualification as a professional. This makes them clear on their working process, the amount they charge, and the outcome they will deliver.
Also, it focuses on respect for its clients’ privacy and does not share, distribute, or sell any of the information you provide to them besides opting for the quick and easy way to make money. In fact, according to a recent survey conducted by the Private Investigator Agency, out of the working clients, 90% of them are concerned about confidentiality.
Professional credentials and verifiable experience form the foundation of trustworthy investigative service. It is always important to verify one’s qualifications to avoid receiving inadequate, unprofessional attention to the case by an unqualified and or fake investigator. Here are the essential verification steps:
Credit checks on the detectives serve your interests and contribute to professional and efficient investigation services on your relationship issues.
In our professional life, many techniques are employed while investigating relationship matters. These approaches uphold extreme ethics and legal propriety to ensure on one aspect the results are well attained and on the other the clients are comfortable. Here are the key techniques investigators utilize:
While observing and recording activities in their subjects, professional surveillance protects their rights to privacy. Police personnel and attorneys employ tools and procedures, which enable them to collect proof while adhering to law and morality.
The investigations of modern relationships imply the study of public accounts and activities in social networks. Career detectives are aware of investigative privacy laws and thus, give attention to information within the public domain.
Investigation costs are usually a function of, the complexity of the case, the number of services needed, and the time taken to accomplish a particular task. Understanding fee regimes and possible costs enables them to brace for investigation costs on the right angle in terms of resource provisions. Here are typical cost considerations:
A clear picture of the cost of investigation assists in avoiding unnecessary digging into the pockets when the costs are high while at the same time avoiding underfunding, which will inhibit the investigation process.
Not all people who call themselves as investigators are reliable as they seem to be. Avoid private investigators who boast that they will come up with the answers you are seeking, as competent, experienced workers understand that every job does not always guarantee evidence.
Beware of questionable value and vagueness other than being expensive for their services because original investigators explain their charges well and in detail. Denying these red flags guaranteed results, hidden fees, and bad communication you will steer clear of unethical investigators and look for an honest, motivated expert who will assist you.
However, it is never stressful to secure the services of a reliable private detective for issues to do with relationships. If you spend some time conducting research, visit their offices to check if they are qualified to handle your case. If you speak to them fully you will end up with the right person. Bear in mind that a competent investigator will never pry and always let you know what is going on.
If you need answers in your relationship then you can always hire the right private investigator who will help you come to a better decision by providing the answers you need for the future.
" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(116) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/11/07/how-to-find-a-trustworthy-private-investigator-for-relationship-concerns/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(326) "Have you ever suspected in a relationship that little something is wrong but failed to figure out how to get the answers? Everyone knows that relationships can be difficult, and at times, you may want to uncover more about what exactly is going on. If you’re uncertain, there is only one professional who can offer […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(8782) "
Have you ever suspected in a relationship that little something is wrong but failed to figure out how to get the answers? Everyone knows that relationships can be difficult, and at times, you may want to uncover more about what exactly is going on. If you’re uncertain, there is only one professional who can offer the proof – private investigators.
However, when it comes to relationship issues it can be very hard to find a reliable private investigator. You want someone experienced, an expert who is real and competent and whose work is discrete but effective. It becomes necessary to identify and select a qualified investigator who will help people clear their relationship status.
Matters of person-to-person relationship investigations should therefore be an affair of huge legal and reputation and courtesy for the probabilities. Hiring a private investigator is a step that means a serious decision to be made after a careful comparison of your current circumstances and goals.
The first step carried out in an investigation incorporates the initial case assessment which reveals the level of investigation and its feasibility, the initial consultations include a simple analysis wherein professional investigators talk about some aspects of the case and how it can be undertaken bearing in mind the legal possibilities and individual privacy respectively.
If you’re living in Las Vegas, hiring a private investigator can provide you with essential facts and help you make an informed decision about your relationship. A reputable Las Vegas private investigator will properly describe any laws applicable to your case, techniques for gathering evidence, and any possible legal consequences.
It is vital how one arranges this trust before hiring a private investigator. A reliable investigator would always possess relevant academic certifications that show qualification as a professional. This makes them clear on their working process, the amount they charge, and the outcome they will deliver.
Also, it focuses on respect for its clients’ privacy and does not share, distribute, or sell any of the information you provide to them besides opting for the quick and easy way to make money. In fact, according to a recent survey conducted by the Private Investigator Agency, out of the working clients, 90% of them are concerned about confidentiality.
Professional credentials and verifiable experience form the foundation of trustworthy investigative service. It is always important to verify one’s qualifications to avoid receiving inadequate, unprofessional attention to the case by an unqualified and or fake investigator. Here are the essential verification steps:
Credit checks on the detectives serve your interests and contribute to professional and efficient investigation services on your relationship issues.
In our professional life, many techniques are employed while investigating relationship matters. These approaches uphold extreme ethics and legal propriety to ensure on one aspect the results are well attained and on the other the clients are comfortable. Here are the key techniques investigators utilize:
While observing and recording activities in their subjects, professional surveillance protects their rights to privacy. Police personnel and attorneys employ tools and procedures, which enable them to collect proof while adhering to law and morality.
The investigations of modern relationships imply the study of public accounts and activities in social networks. Career detectives are aware of investigative privacy laws and thus, give attention to information within the public domain.
Investigation costs are usually a function of, the complexity of the case, the number of services needed, and the time taken to accomplish a particular task. Understanding fee regimes and possible costs enables them to brace for investigation costs on the right angle in terms of resource provisions. Here are typical cost considerations:
A clear picture of the cost of investigation assists in avoiding unnecessary digging into the pockets when the costs are high while at the same time avoiding underfunding, which will inhibit the investigation process.
Not all people who call themselves as investigators are reliable as they seem to be. Avoid private investigators who boast that they will come up with the answers you are seeking, as competent, experienced workers understand that every job does not always guarantee evidence.
Beware of questionable value and vagueness other than being expensive for their services because original investigators explain their charges well and in detail. Denying these red flags guaranteed results, hidden fees, and bad communication you will steer clear of unethical investigators and look for an honest, motivated expert who will assist you.
However, it is never stressful to secure the services of a reliable private detective for issues to do with relationships. If you spend some time conducting research, visit their offices to check if they are qualified to handle your case. If you speak to them fully you will end up with the right person. Bear in mind that a competent investigator will never pry and always let you know what is going on.
If you need answers in your relationship then you can always hire the right private investigator who will help you come to a better decision by providing the answers you need for the future.
" ["date_timestamp"]=> int(1730991382) } [9]=> array(14) { ["title"]=> string(31) "The Best Hip-hop Love Song Ever" ["link"]=> string(70) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/10/03/the-best-hip-hop-love-song-ever/" ["comments"]=> string(78) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/10/03/the-best-hip-hop-love-song-ever/#respond" ["dc"]=> array(1) { ["creator"]=> string(10) "Andrew Tch" } ["pubdate"]=> string(31) "Thu, 03 Oct 2024 13:09:49 +0000" ["category"]=> string(107) "Interestingbest songsdmxeve featuring faith evanship hopkillarmymusicnassongsthe lost boyzthe pharcydetupac" ["guid"]=> string(34) "https://blog.loveawake.com/?p=9172" ["description"]=> string(347) "So, while driving back to pittsburgh after last week’s matchmaker event, my friend and i listened to different satellite radio rap stations the entire way, and were both utterly flabbergasted at how bad today’s mainstream hip-hop is. seriously, I’m usually not a “everything was better back in the day” type of guy, but after a […]" ["content"]=> array(1) { ["encoded"]=> string(9790) "
So, while driving back to pittsburgh after last week’s matchmaker event, my friend and i listened to different satellite radio rap stations the entire way, and were both utterly flabbergasted at how bad today’s mainstream hip-hop is. seriously, I’m usually not a “everything was better back in the day” type of guy, but after a couple verses from something called “waka flocka flame” almost gave me epilepsy, there’s really nothing else i can say.
As we neared pittsburgh, drake’s “best i ever had” came on, and the following conversation ensued:
Friend: “who is this guy?” (the only “new” rapper my man knows about is kanye. seriously, talking hip-hop with him makes me feel like i’m back in 1997. all i’d need is a pair of fatigues and a red jansport and i’d be right back in homeroom)
Me: “new cat named drake. why?”
Friend: “i can actually understand what he’s saying. if i was a 13 year old girl, i’d love this song”
Me: “that’s easily the gayest thing you’ve said all day. you need to quit playing them away games”
Friend: “the game’s out there, manye. you either play or get played”
Anyway, remembering this conversation and the subject matter of “best i’ve ever had” got me thinking: what’s the best hip-hop love song ever made? To be honest with you, i’m not exactly sure…but, i do have nine nominees.
***note: on my list, “love” doesn’t just encapsulate romantic love. the songs i’ve listed run the gamut from romantic and platonic to even inanimate object. also, just in case another batch of people completely unable to not take themselves seriously happen to “discover” vsb today, i want to remind everyone to remove the sphincter poles and realize that these nominees are just reflections of my own personal whims and remembrances***
One of the reasons why i’ve love the wu so much is that they’re completely and utterly unafraid to take artistic chances. from ghost spitting that his “rhymes are like ziti” to the rza’s perpetual (and occasionally annoying) experimentation, you literally have no idea what the hell you’ll hear when listening to a wu album. This fact is evident the first verse of “sweet love“, when street life rhymes about having sex with his girlfriend while he’s driving his car. not head. sex. while. driving.
Later in the song, cappadonna spits his infamous “love is love, love. love is love, love” line (which i later immortalized with a left arm tat) and method man delivers a verse than i actually cut and pasted and sent as a poem to a woman i was involved with, lying that i wrote it myself because i knew she’d never listen to the song.
***btw, by “was involved with” i mean “totally had an unrequited crush for“. the “poem” didn’t help. a couple weeks later, i got even more desperate and cut and pasted an inspectah deck verse. this worked. and by “this worked” i mean, “i finally got some from her four years later“***
From the storyline and the chorus to eve’s verse and the fatalistic feel of the end of the song, everything about this track is perfect. Btw, speaking of perfect, if i had to rank “impressive and envy-worthy beards”, black thought’s would definitely be 1st, jerome bettis’, would be 2nd and paul pierce’s would be 295th.
Along with radiohead’s “creep” and “friends zone” by 88 keys and shitake monkey, this song perfectly represents the gamut of emotions men go through when faced with unrequited love. Plus, it’s one of the 10 or so songs that any self-respecting hip-hop head knows all of the words to. And, if you need a surefire way to make hipster chicks swoon, tweet a line from fatlips verse at least once a day.
I’m including it because, well, i don’t know if i ever loved anything as much as tupac claimed to love his gun. well, maybe cookies and cream milkshakes, but that’s about it
Probably the first real surprise entry on the list, i nominated “full moon” because of the depth of the brotherly bond for a murdered friend that killa sin expresses in the song’s second verse. I still get chills today when i hear him say “we went back far, like acorn fights around the swings”.
Arguably the best story from hip-hop’s best storyteller, “undying love” deals with a rather, ummm, extreme reaction to finding out that your loved one was unfaithful. Is also one of the only “story” songs where each of the characters involved is dead by the end. basically, it’s a great song to have on your boning mixtape.
For no other reason than the fact that i say “since you gave me the p*ssy, your ass has gotten fatter” in dmx’s voice (in my head) to my girlfriend at least once a week.
I had a “why it made the cut” summary written out, but i deleted it when i realized that it was completely panderific. The only reason this song is here is because i realized i hadn’t named any female rappers and wanted to be subversive by not going with salt and pepa’s perfunctory “gotta man”.
I won’t say that the video still brings tears to my eyes when renee gets shot, but i will say that i haven’t watched it in over 10 years just because of that possibility. Maybe this makes me a punk, but seriously, renee didn’t have to die. why the hell did renee have to die????
Anyway falks, i’m sure i’m missing a few (hundred). What else would you nominate for the best hip-hop love song ever?
" } ["wfw"]=> array(1) { ["commentrss"]=> string(75) "https://blog.loveawake.com/2024/10/03/the-best-hip-hop-love-song-ever/feed/" } ["slash"]=> array(1) { ["comments"]=> string(1) "0" } ["summary"]=> string(347) "So, while driving back to pittsburgh after last week’s matchmaker event, my friend and i listened to different satellite radio rap stations the entire way, and were both utterly flabbergasted at how bad today’s mainstream hip-hop is. seriously, I’m usually not a “everything was better back in the day” type of guy, but after a […]" ["atom_content"]=> string(9790) "So, while driving back to pittsburgh after last week’s matchmaker event, my friend and i listened to different satellite radio rap stations the entire way, and were both utterly flabbergasted at how bad today’s mainstream hip-hop is. seriously, I’m usually not a “everything was better back in the day” type of guy, but after a couple verses from something called “waka flocka flame” almost gave me epilepsy, there’s really nothing else i can say.
As we neared pittsburgh, drake’s “best i ever had” came on, and the following conversation ensued:
Friend: “who is this guy?” (the only “new” rapper my man knows about is kanye. seriously, talking hip-hop with him makes me feel like i’m back in 1997. all i’d need is a pair of fatigues and a red jansport and i’d be right back in homeroom)
Me: “new cat named drake. why?”
Friend: “i can actually understand what he’s saying. if i was a 13 year old girl, i’d love this song”
Me: “that’s easily the gayest thing you’ve said all day. you need to quit playing them away games”
Friend: “the game’s out there, manye. you either play or get played”
Anyway, remembering this conversation and the subject matter of “best i’ve ever had” got me thinking: what’s the best hip-hop love song ever made? To be honest with you, i’m not exactly sure…but, i do have nine nominees.
***note: on my list, “love” doesn’t just encapsulate romantic love. the songs i’ve listed run the gamut from romantic and platonic to even inanimate object. also, just in case another batch of people completely unable to not take themselves seriously happen to “discover” vsb today, i want to remind everyone to remove the sphincter poles and realize that these nominees are just reflections of my own personal whims and remembrances***
One of the reasons why i’ve love the wu so much is that they’re completely and utterly unafraid to take artistic chances. from ghost spitting that his “rhymes are like ziti” to the rza’s perpetual (and occasionally annoying) experimentation, you literally have no idea what the hell you’ll hear when listening to a wu album. This fact is evident the first verse of “sweet love“, when street life rhymes about having sex with his girlfriend while he’s driving his car. not head. sex. while. driving.
Later in the song, cappadonna spits his infamous “love is love, love. love is love, love” line (which i later immortalized with a left arm tat) and method man delivers a verse than i actually cut and pasted and sent as a poem to a woman i was involved with, lying that i wrote it myself because i knew she’d never listen to the song.
***btw, by “was involved with” i mean “totally had an unrequited crush for“. the “poem” didn’t help. a couple weeks later, i got even more desperate and cut and pasted an inspectah deck verse. this worked. and by “this worked” i mean, “i finally got some from her four years later“***
From the storyline and the chorus to eve’s verse and the fatalistic feel of the end of the song, everything about this track is perfect. Btw, speaking of perfect, if i had to rank “impressive and envy-worthy beards”, black thought’s would definitely be 1st, jerome bettis’, would be 2nd and paul pierce’s would be 295th.
Along with radiohead’s “creep” and “friends zone” by 88 keys and shitake monkey, this song perfectly represents the gamut of emotions men go through when faced with unrequited love. Plus, it’s one of the 10 or so songs that any self-respecting hip-hop head knows all of the words to. And, if you need a surefire way to make hipster chicks swoon, tweet a line from fatlips verse at least once a day.
I’m including it because, well, i don’t know if i ever loved anything as much as tupac claimed to love his gun. well, maybe cookies and cream milkshakes, but that’s about it
Probably the first real surprise entry on the list, i nominated “full moon” because of the depth of the brotherly bond for a murdered friend that killa sin expresses in the song’s second verse. I still get chills today when i hear him say “we went back far, like acorn fights around the swings”.
Arguably the best story from hip-hop’s best storyteller, “undying love” deals with a rather, ummm, extreme reaction to finding out that your loved one was unfaithful. Is also one of the only “story” songs where each of the characters involved is dead by the end. basically, it’s a great song to have on your boning mixtape.
For no other reason than the fact that i say “since you gave me the p*ssy, your ass has gotten fatter” in dmx’s voice (in my head) to my girlfriend at least once a week.
I had a “why it made the cut” summary written out, but i deleted it when i realized that it was completely panderific. The only reason this song is here is because i realized i hadn’t named any female rappers and wanted to be subversive by not going with salt and pepa’s perfunctory “gotta man”.
I won’t say that the video still brings tears to my eyes when renee gets shot, but i will say that i haven’t watched it in over 10 years just because of that possibility. Maybe this makes me a punk, but seriously, renee didn’t have to die. why the hell did renee have to die????
Anyway falks, i’m sure i’m missing a few (hundred). What else would you nominate for the best hip-hop love song ever?
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